Norma Jean Speaks! I Don't Mean to Blog, But......

My Review of Tyrannosaur

2011-11-16T23:36:00.000-08:00

Well, if you know Olivia Colman, you know GOOD work! The above photo was taken tonight after the film and I was so thrilled to meet and chat with her.

Let me start by saying her performance in this film is OSCAR WORTHY!

The movie starts out very compelling, Joseph (Peter Mullan) coupled with rage and anger that you don't really expect. The shear madness of it all will have you inching up in your seat just drooling wondering what will happen next!

Skip ahead to when we first see Hannah (Olivia Colman), you already can feel this character...she's warm, loving, almost sacred-there can be nothing wrong with this child of God.

We find out later in the movie there is a lot of things wrong with Hannah. Namely, she is a victim of domestic abuse over and over and over. I can relate to her turmoil, not sure what to do, how to get away from it, making excuses and lying to your friends...it's just a vicious cycle that we victims have gone through until we find the strength to leave. Which, by the way, she did leave-yeah!

There is a part in the movie where she is praying over Joseph's father and you'd think she was a nun the way the words flowed, sounding so heavenly. The use of sound reduction in this particular scene works amazingly. Joseph's eyes and the faint whisper of her voice in back of them...really well done!

The story continues and moves to happier times with Hannah and Joseph in a pub, celebrating the life of Joseph's now deceased father. The joy that was forgotten in both their lives was brought seemingly back to life in those moments. Watching it, I reflected back to more care-free times in my life where I could enjoy a glass of wine with friends and just talk about anything, laugh about anything, no worries, all the world's trouble's forgotten. This scene hit the mark, I think a lot of people probably felt the same way watching it. If they didn't, there's something wrong with them.

When we reach the end of the movie, the twist of fate that occurs was just so unexpected for me. Inside, it made me want to scream and shout and cheer for Hannah, but at the same time I felt so sad for her. Joseph's life will go on now, but with a sort of calm that only Hannah could provide.

If you want to know why the movie is named "Tyrannosaur" it will be revealed to you in the movie, I'm certainly not going to tell you! Go watch it!

Two Thumbs WAY Up!!

OSCAR WORTHY!!! You heard it here! OSCAR WORTHY!!!

Please be sure to "Like" The Film on Facebook!
https://www.facebook.com/TyrannosaurUK

Bravo to the Newport Beach Film Festival and the Orange County Film Society for another well-done screening!

Please help us by volunteering this coming year. For more information on the Festival, please visit:

http://www.newportbeachfilmfestival.com

My Review of J. Edgar

2011-11-09T09:30:00.000-08:00

While I can appreciate special effects makeup, I seriously can never get past when people are made to look "old" it always (for me, anyway) looks fake and ridiculous. Precisely why I HATED "The Curious Case of Benjamin Button."

So, let me start off by saying....when the movie first begins, it's pretty unbelievable to watch Leo DiCaprio look like he's in his 70s. This same thing holds true for my acting comrades, Naomi Watts and Armie Hammer. All things aside, the acting in this movie is superb from all.

The story line was quite good, I was glued on every word. Kudos to writer Dustin Lance Black. I see some folks on the net refer to this movie as "Brokeback Mountain Meets Politics" and I didn't really see it as that at all....ok, maybe a little?

In one of the very first scenes, I saw a few people I knew, but namely Jon Henderson who was playing one of the FBI Men that J. Edgar was speaking to in the beginning of the movie. There were three men, Jon in the middle, doing nothing but nodding and agreeing, with puzzlement and interest, a GREAT step for Background folks that are known and respected in our industry. I was so PROUD to see one of the people I've come up with in such a great spot. I bet he was thrilled to have worked with Leo, what a treat! I'm still waiting for a phone call back from him, I called him from the lobby to say kudos about 9:45 last night.

Throughout the movie, there are great interwoven stories about J. Edgar's triumphs, lies, failures and family. The most interesting connection with J. Edgar and his mother comes to a great peak when she says something so profound, the whole audience gasped with one breath. Now THAT's good writing! There were a few funny lines which we all picked up on. There was a rhythm in the theater that was unmistakably charged. Keep in mind, the audience last night at the AMC 30 in Orange consisted of REAL movie folks, all from the Newport Beach Film Festival organization (I'm a volunteer) as well as the Orange County Film Society. Believe me, we won't give you laughs unless it's deserved.

I think overall, my impression of the movie was this:
Great acting, great storyline, incredible sets and costumes....I just could have done without the fake "old" makeup and would have liked to see two similar actors playing all these parts of the Older J. Edgar, Clyde and Helen. Please, Mr. Eastwood, can we do that next time? Sorry, but it just drives me batty.

Thanks for reading everyone, I highly recommend this movie!

Kudos to all my fellow actors and film comrades, GOOD SHOW! Can't wait to get the screener and watch it again!
Norma Jean
SAG/AFTRA

I'm Goin' on The Road!

2011-10-06T20:15:00.000-07:00

So, folks...

I have a new job that is going to take me all over the country. With that, I have been planning on doing standup at various joints across the US-neat, huh? If you have any connections to people in other parts that have connections to people at Comedy Clubs, would you please share my Electronic Press Kit with them? Much appreciated, I will keep you posted!

Norma Jean Electronic Press Kit

Murder Mystery Players Work Opportunity

2011-10-05T11:02:00.000-07:00

Would you like to be on the roster for Murder Mystery Players? I am the Director for the Company's LA/OC areas. If you are not interested, my wish is that you would pass this on to someone who might like to be a part of my troop.

Keep in mind, performing in a Murder Mystery takes SKILL-interaction with the audience (HUGE DEAL), the ability to PROJECT LOUDLY, focus on each other constantly (this is not set on a stage, you will be milling about the crowd) and to be super friendly and make sure that our clients are having a thrilling time with us. Customer Service is key! Please, if this doesn't sound like something you can handle, don't waste our time.

Please write me at njean@mysteryplayers.com and send me your reel clips, resumes, headshots...all that.

Murder Mystery Players is NOT just a company that performs Murder Mysteries, we offer a huge variety of team-building events, etc. that we do for corporations and private events.

For further information about the company, I encourage you to visit our website, you'll be pleasantly surprised :)
http://mysteryplayers.com/

Also, if you know of anyone looking for an event for their company, I do pay a small $20 finders fee after the event's completion.

Thanks!
Norma Jean

The Blacklist In Student Filmmaking

2011-07-27T18:02:00.000-07:00

Believe me when I tell you, there IS a blacklist in the Student Film "Industry."

In chatting with an unnamed USC Director the other day, it was brought to my attention that the students help one another in ways that we don't see; namely, with a blacklist of Actors that are NEVER called to audition. This list is shared independently within each school, but I'm sure that the list is quite similar from institution to institution.

Here's some of the latest nutty antics that this Director shared with me, these were also all SAG Members!!

1. Actors demanding to get paid after they've been offered a role.

2. Older male actors making advances on younger female students.

3. Trash-talking the quality of work, the set, the crafty, etc., online!! Ok, this one is just WRONG...these are students!!

Believe me, there are tons of these stories, but I wanted to offer you some examples.

While having this conversation with said Director, I was informed that the blacklist they have is their guideline for their initial audition picks. If you're on the list, you are simply ignored. All students are informed of the list from their first days in the curriculum.

My take on this whole matter is shock!! I can't fathom it....that my fellow SAG members would do anything remotely close to this is just beyond my comprehension.

What are your thoughts? Ever heard of this list?

Student filmmakers are our next Speilbergs, Howards, Scorseses, etc. Why ruin it for yourself!!??
Oh, that's right, REAL ACTORS don't do that stuff :)

Much love to all reading this,
Norma Jean

Review: Steel Magnolias - Costa Mesa Playhouse

2011-06-18T23:55:00.000-07:00

Steel Magnolias is running now through July 3rd at the Costa Mesa Playhouse.

When I walked in to the theater with my cup of coffee in my hand, I was surrounded by Aqua Net. The setting is Truvy's Salon, well-equipped and not one detail forgotten. Even the hair dryers really do operate...fun to watch! The remarkable stage design work of Travis Stolp, was absolutely gorgeous! Kudos for set construction by Mike Brown, George Hunter, and Steve Endicott.

Sound and Lights by Travis Stolp and John McQuay were super, always are. The lightening effects and radio playbacks really stood out, excellent choices of music throughout!

Costuming by Christopher Miles-a respectful bow to you sir, the entire cast looked authentic and then some. The best dressed award goes to YOU! You really "outfit" yourself!

Jason Holland, my hat's off to you for a well-directed, thought-out interpretation. The blocking-you couldn't have done it better! The interactions...played out extremely well and entrances and exits timed perfectly with no distractions at all. Great movement, nothing ever too rushed or "tightly packed," nothing too slow either. The flow was a smooth ebb of delivery, just as it should be...Bravo!

What I saw tonight blew me away, I can't even tell you how much...but let me try.

The show opens with Annelle doing Truvy's hair and I'm sitting in my seat already entranced. Michelle Pederson, who plays Truvee has so much of "Dolly Parton" in her that you'd think they cloned a younger Dolly and just shrunk her boobs a bit. This smaller-chested version is nothing but BIG CHARACTER, however. Michelle was amazing in this role and nothing short of amazing, I tell ya!! She's got all her own hair, which works well since Truvy's a hairdresser, the character must have hair and BIG hair at that. I don't know where she came from, but she was meant to play this role. Ironically, I learned she had played it about five years ago...acting can be just like riding a bike if you're lucky enough to land a great role like that twice. I don't know about her, but sometimes it's even better the second go-around. Director Jason Holland (who I can't find online!) got reeeaally lucky having her in his cast. I can't even begin to tell you, this girl has the mannerisms of the original character down to a science. Even the way her lip goes to one side when she's excited or telling gossip is perfection. Now, one sad thing I have discovered, you can't find Michelle Pederson ANYWHERE online...at least I haven't been able to. A very sad discovery for such a great talent who should be known to more people, in my opinion.

Oh, this brings me to a side note....not one Actress offered me her card, nor were there any website links in their bios...BOO! I didn't see any (business cards) being handed out after the show, period--a big no no in the "Marketing for Dummies" book inside my head. Hey girls, promote yourselves!! You NEVER know who's in an audience!! Believe me, I've been in the same room with CBS execs with no idea...so no promo is a no no! I'm always glad when I can meet my fellow actors/actresses after a show. Sadly, Amanda Hart dodged out the door without greeting any of the audience :( I hadn't seen Erin Miller come out so I got someone to grab her and she shook my hand and greeted me over the snack counter-so cute. Lynn Gallagher I went after out back, since I missed talking to her in the lobby. Michelle Pedersen had a flock of people around her so I made my introduction after her fans left. Phyllis I grabbed onto first, she was out in the lobby the quickest. A very nice lady, she's almost too quiet a contrast to Ouiser, profoundly :) Bethany, well, I grabbed her and gave big hugs and kisses, through more tears...funny.

Ok, so, on to the recap of this amazing evening!

Annelle, played by Erin Miller, is the funniest, quirkiest thang you ever did see!...(Insert Hilarious Southern Accent) If you've seen the movie, you'll remember how Daryl Hannah keeps her head down and walks with such a "busy body" look about her. Shy, unsure of herself, she just needs the darn job and wants no part of letting anyone "in." The character (physically) almost reminds me of Agnes Gooch in Auntie Mame (not that I'd know anything about that character - heheh) With the corners of her mouth consistently pointed down and her pointed and well-aimed comedic delivery behind a HUGE pair of glasses, she's a treasure to watch. She gets all the laughs in most of the first 20 mins or so of the show and every one of them extremely well-deserved. I am not sure where this kid learned her timinig, but she had a good teacher, so hats off to whoever that is! As I'm thinking about it, she just may be an updated version of Ruth Buzzee, we just need to get her a purse and a hair net and I bet she'd do battle!

Well, now that I've taken in these two, I await the entry of one Lynn Gallagher, who's probably just slightly older than I and after reading her amazing bio, I couldn't wait to see what she had in store for me. As an Actress, when one of your peers has some "skin" (aka experience) under their belt, it's like waiting to see what will happen if you say, threw a grenade with the pin still in. Will it go off anyway? You just really crave the explosion no matter what...and you wait behind that wall...whispering to yourself...come on...come on....!! There was an explosion alright! A big KABOOM when Lynn took the stage, she took over..BAM! There was no mistaking the right choice had been made for this role. Her character interpretation was dead on...controlled, matter-of-fact, precise, practical, endearing, rich, perfectly timed...oh and her "throw aways" hit out of the park, baby! Whooo hooo....just amazing work throughout the entire play. No matter when she'd "come in" in the conversations you knew it was going to be funny, profound and just make you fall in love with her and I did. Bravo for an amazing performance, Lynn.

I'm thinking to myself, ok, Shelby's time to arrive to get her hair done for the wedding is just about to hit. Amanda Hart, who is tall and lanky, has the most beautiful face that brought me back to the first time I ever saw Snow White at Disney...entranced by her milky and flawless complexion, she's just gorgeous--she makes an amazing Shelby in looks alone, never mind her dead-on voice and accent...you'd think you were watching Julia Roberts--she's THAT good. The biggest "thrill" for me was anticipating this whole time about how she was going to do with the famous Diabetic seizure. I guess as an Actress, I want to see my fellow Actress let go and give it everything she's got. So, I sit through the scene with anticipation build up. I won't give anything away about the seizure scene, I'm going to leave that one a mystery. Along with Shelby, comes my amazing friend, Bethany Price as M'Lynn, Shelby's Mother. The talk about Shelby's hair either up or down for the wedding, the baby's breathe in the hair or not, it's all great ping-pong dialogue with none of the five women ever skipping a beat. The connection with all the Actresses was splendid and moving, reminds me of a time when I was in my early 20s and I'd have a house full of friends over, chatting about any ole' thing and it would seem like it was the most important thing in the world. Looking back, it was just being together that made everything so wonderful. Girls getting together to talk about absolutely nothing is something that women LOVE to do and we LOVE each other when we're doing it. I don't expect you men to understand the importance of talks such as what you're making for dinner tomorrow night, but to us, it's who we are. So, thinking of that, I got so lost and profoundly connected--so much so, I forgot I was even sitting in an audience.

Bethany's face is very reminiscent of Sally Field in the movie. I keep seeing Sally as I watched Bethany.....it was a great performance, she never held back. From the time she comes in, you already feel the sense of protection she has for Shelby even before the Diabetic seizure happens. She nails it! Bethany is a Mom in real life, I'm sure that has a lot to do with her interpretation. As protector, solid and reasonable, rational and loving as you'll find in the ideal mom, Bethany makes you forget it's Bethany up there "playing" someone else. Even knowing her, she made me forget that I knew her and drove me to a place that I could not escape from...the memories of our own mothers growing up in our time...the 70s and 80s. M'Lynn is stubborn as a mule, would do anything for anyone and yes, forgets about her own needs and desires. She gives every bit of soul she has to Shelby and doesn't think twice about it. Bethany Price is an amazing Actress...just wait till you see her riviting monologue at the end...it's not easy, but she makes it look like a walk in the park. If you don't cry, something's wrong with you. Hell, I was still crying when I went out to the Lobby. Not to take anything away from the other cast members, they are all great. Buuuut....Bethany's performance left not one dry eye in the house...and it is by far the highlight and most pinnacle part of the entire production, hands down, no question. For those that don't know the story of Steel Magnolias, I urge you to NOT rent the movie yet, just go see this. THEN watch Sally Field. Bethany NAILS it! NAILS..you hear me? NAILS!

Ouiser (played by Phyllis Nofts) is the craziest old battle axe you every did see! When we first see her, she's in a butcheroo jogging set and t-shirt. HILARE!! She walks in like a dude, you could feel the audience in a blank stare watching her. Ok, is Ouiser a lesbian or just a mean ole' "hasn't had it in 15 years" difficult lady? Precisely what Ouiser is, Phyllis plays her extremely well. With her strong opinions, dog as her best friend, heavy foot work and "get the hell outta my face" attitude, you understand she's got walls up she wants noone to tear down. She's hilarious and I couldn't stop laughing at her! The big hat she wore just about killed me. Christopher Miles-Costumes...kudos again! When she first enters the show, she's "hard" and "rough" around the edges. As the show progresses, she softens up a little bit and probably because she's "ticklin' the ivories" with an old fling that's come back into town. You never see the guy, but I bet he's a submissive. No matter when Ouiser opens her mouth, you know that deep down, there's a loving, wonderful lady dying to get out and show herself to you. Her stage presence is BIG and she's got some killer comebacks that are laugh-out-loud funny. Of course, I laughed out loud a LOT! The softer side that Phyllis brings out in Ouiser is an absolute joy to witness and to hold dear during your reflection on the car ride home.

So, there you have it, without giving away the story, (I don't want to spoil it) I hope you have enjoyed my little review. I don't write extensive reviews unless I see a play that makes me go WOW and I just feel moved to write about it. This one made me go...HOLY WOW!

From my mouth to your pocket....
GO SEE STEEL MAGNOLIAS!!

NJ

Nothing Tastes as Good as Being Thin Feels

2011-06-15T17:29:00.000-07:00

Well, after just one month on Atkins, I have lost and am maintaining a 12-lb weight loss. My goal weight is 130, so I'm half-way there...a great feeling!

I am so thrilled at the results, I've been doing Atkins (as some of you know) and it's such a great plan for me...I'm seemingly addicted to sweets: Pies, Cakes, Cookies, you name it!!

Cutting out the carbs not only means cutting out these things, but paying close, close attention to WHAT I'm eating and HOW MUCH I'm eating.

According to an oline Body Mass Index Calculator, my BMI is 23. It also suggests it should be at 21.3. I was hoping it would suggest to get down to like 19?! Hello? According to research I've done, the normal BMI is 18.5–24.9. So, at 21.3, I'd still be at the high end?!? NO THANKS!!

I do believe once I get down to 130 I'll be happy and my BMI rate will be happy too!

I had some comments on Facebook saying: You looked fine already, etc. Well, I don't know any woman that's 5'7" weighing 154 lbs looking fine?? Blech, gross!

I do know that when I was 125-130 I could actually fit all my clothes too, just saying.

Here's today's pic, taken at 142 lbs. down from 154!! Still got the dunlop disease but I'm working on that too. I bet my chest weighs 10 lbs.? LOL Gaaaawd....

This one was taken back in March, I weighed 158 here...*embarrassing* but I hope my journey will help YOU too!

There's more to life than letting food control you! Eating crappy food and dying young is NOT on my life plan. If you are inspired, leave a comment.

Much love to all,

Teaching My Kids How to Drive....It's Actually FUN!

2011-06-13T11:26:00.000-07:00

So, Robbie turned 17 this year and decided he wanted to REALLY start learning and get his permit. My oldest, Brooks, who turns 23 TODAY, had never really had a need to drive (he's always been close to his work), let alone an interest.

So, last week it began. The adventure of one single mother taking on yet another challenge of Motherhood: Teaching your boys how to drive.

Now, at first I thought, OH GOD this is going to take a lot of prayer and trust in the Lord to get through, not to mention the trust and love of my kids. Not only for me to put up with their shaky driving, but the love and patience they have for me as their nervous and at time, trying teacher.

If anyone knows Robbie, you know what a clown he is! Seems that the driving is almost second nature to him. Funny, I'm actually starting to credit those damn games like "Mario Cart" and Robbie's "Ford Mushroom" as he calls it, with his ability for good clean, straight-away driving-I was, to say the least, impressed. So, here's the clown on his second day of driving mom's "Blueby," a 2002 VW Jetta.

My Son Driving - watch more funny videos

As for Brooks, I did take video (yesterday was his first day) but I'm not putting it up, he asked nicely-rats!

Anyway, he did EXTREMELY well for his first time. I guess all that riding for all these years, he's actually paid attention! lol. The day was JUST great, one of the highlights of my days as a mother. Now, both my kids can drive (more practicing is coming of course). The biggest highlight of my day, I must say, was after dinner, Brooks, out of nowhere says, "Mom, you're an awesome driving teacher." I lost it-I'm such a crybaby-LOL!

It's a great feeling for all of us--the soon-to-be freedom they will have by being able to drive and the peace I can get by asking them "Hey, do you boys want to drive to the store!?"

Update on The Postiive Actor Podcast

2011-06-13T10:37:00.000-07:00

Happy Monday! Just A Few Words From Me...

2011-06-06T21:09:00.000-07:00

Some Wonderful Testimonials About My Work Over The Years

2011-06-05T21:45:00.000-07:00

“Norma Jean a force to be reckoned with-- smart, funny, creative, and warm, coupled with a lovely soul. Strongly recommended.” ~Bill Thomas, Executive Director, Los Angeles, AFTRA

"An absolute joy to work with!" ~Emo Philips, Comedian

"Norma Jean has been an asset reaching out to the performers she knows and meets to help spread the word about the importance of having strong business skills which go hand-in-hand with our company Holdon Log and its products. We look forward to learning more about her career achievements and to supporting her promotional endeavors through our product sponsorship." ~Michele Botti, Field Rep Director, Holdon Log, LLC

"I have worked with Norma Jean in Hollywood. She is a fabulous comic as well as a terriffic actress. She is someone who is going to be a Big Star in the future." ~Mike Muratore, Comic

"As a comic, Norma Jean puts on a first-rate show with her top-notch character work and comedic timing. As a person, I completely trust her. Her success as a comedienne and producer is no surprise to me. People are drawn to her energy. She is an honest, organized professional - she simply rocks." ~Laura Park, Comedian

"Initially I thought Norma Jean was kidding about her past, that it was just an act, part of her routine. The story was so outrageous. But it's real. As Tammy Faye said, "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade." NJ did just that, finding inside her the sugar, water and outside her, the pitcher, ice and spoon. We all add the cups and share in her transformation. I thank her for sharing her story and encouraging those hurt by life to move on and create a new story."~Julie Ralls, MD, La Mejora Doctora del Mundo

"I really appreciated Norma Jean's professionalism and positive attitude. She was a pleasure to act with!" ~Stephanie T. Keefer, Actress

"Norma Jean is too young to be my mother, but she played her in my video. She is a pleasure to work with and makes a mean prop matzah-ball soup!" ~Eric Schwartz, Comedian

"Norma Jean is not just a performer. She's a movement; a force to be reckoned with!" ~Sal Rodriguez, Comedian

"Norma Jean was a privilege to work with and a joy to film. She brings a smile to my face and a bulge to my pants." ~Eric Leventhal, Producer/Director/Howie of "The Howie Show"

"Norma Jean, is without a doubt, one of the hardest working comics in the Orange County area." ~Nick Spears, Comedian

"Norma Jean is one of the hardest working, most down to earth people in the biz." ~Melia Mills, Comedian

"Casting Norma Jean in my film was one of the unexpectedly best decisions of the process. Aside from her professionalism and incredibly friendly attitude, she brought life to a part that would have otherwise been dull...an unexpected but wonderful surprise!" ~Lena Khan, Director, "Bassem Is Trying"

"Loved performing at the club with Norma Jean. She was organized and professional. Also, enjoyed her character (smoking mom) Not smoking hot, just smoking...with milk too." ~Angella Sweatt, Comedian

"Every performer in OC has, at some time or another, been completely impressed by this woman's boundless energy, talent, and savvy. Her fingerprint on the OC comedy scene is huge and she has only been here a few years. Imagine what we will see in a few more years." Jeff Leon, Comedian aka Flibbertigibbet

Food Fare this weekend -This Looks Amazingly Yummy!!

2011-06-03T09:21:00.000-07:00

Ok, who wants to go with me? I'm going to head down about noon.

Sapphire Food Fare

Sapphire Food Festival

Chef Azmin Ghahreman and Sapphire Culinary Group are excited to introduce Sapphire Food Fare, which is more than just a farmer’s market, but a culinary experience for the family. The first of many food fares will be held at St. Anne School in Laguna Niguel (32451 Bear Brand Road) on Saturday, June 4 from 10 a.m. – 2 p.m. Sapphire Food Fare is a collection of fine foods and produce for sale, offering everything from farm-fresh produce and herbs, artisanal breads, cheeses and chocolates, organic grass-fed beef, fresh seafood, local varietal honeys. Chefs will be on-hand to demonstrate recipes and provide samplings, while nutritionists and health experts will be available to share advice to the whole family about how to eat better. For more information call 949.715.9888 or sapphirelaguna.com.

When
6/4/2011

Time
10:00 AM - 2:00 PM

Where
St. Anne's School
32451 Bear Brand Road
Laguna Niguel, CA 92677

Cost
Free

Upcoming Pet Adoption Event

2011-06-03T09:14:00.001-07:00

I love animals, so I wanted to share this event with you.

5th Annual Super Pet Adoption Event

The event features more than 800 homeless dogs, cats and rabbits for adoption and includes a silent auction, opportunity drawing, low-cost microchipping and free advice from veterinarians and dog trainers. For more information visit irvineshelter.org or call 949.724.7740.

When
6/11/2011

Time
10:00 AM - 4:00 PM

Where
Irvine Animal Care Center

Cost
$1

I AM

2011-03-12T21:27:00.000-08:00

There are many things that move me....a child's laughter, a friend's hug, a snail making its way down the sidewalk in my apartment complex, the Ocean's smell, the sound of my sons snoring.

Yes, many things move ALL of us and I'm sure you can relate to the previous. But, what it seems that most of us can't relate to is the effect that each one of us have on the world. It starts with one, and then another, and another...pretty soon, a whole village has a cooperative-THEIR idea.

As a race, in general, we are cooperative...without hesitation, during disaster especially, answer the call to "help" one another.

You see, what is small and somehow insignificent to the masses can grow to be something that affects people in such a way, such a profound way that it causes a WAVE of excitement, courage, banding and bonding together, focusing our global attention to this "thing," whatever that might be.

This new documentary by Tom Shadyac, friend, loving, courageous, intelligent, man-who I LOVE...is called simply, "I AM." A profound message about what that means is found at the very end of the film...an "ah" moment you could feel ubiquitously running through the veins of the entire audience-we were indeed ONE.

If you understand what a MOVEMENT is, you'll understand what "I AM" is going to do, is doing. I personally believe this documentary is not just Oscar Worthy, but US worthy! What do I mean by that? "I AM" is not just about "ME" it's about "US" - the air we breath, the steps we take, the knowledge we possess, the character and morals we each carry. The part that each of us breathes into this "World Machine."

While I watched this documentary last night, I was moved to tears well over just a few times. Sure, if you know me, you know I'll cry at the drop of a hat when something moves me, but this was something different...this was something deep and profound....tears for US as a people is what I was shedding-- humanity as a whole and the disease that we have inflicted upon ourselves. The disease I'm talking about is not some series of unfortunate events....like our Economy crashing or the fact that our kids are stealing our Vicodin and selling it for four bucks a pop in English Class. I'm talking about the fact that we CREATED this....this, this MESS.

In the Bible, Jesus speaks of the demands of discipleship, telling a rich man to sell his possessions and give the money to the poor. He states that his message divides family members against each other. Ironic? Give it some thought. Even if you are not a believer, your own moral code "gets" it. Intrinsically, we are all the same...we are born of innocence and become products of our environment. STUFF won't make you happy, but what you DO with that is of vital importance and one that we should all pay closer attention to.

I challenge you to randomly hug a stranger, give what you can to those in need, volunteer your time, GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONES! There has never been a more PROFOUND message in a Documentary than THIS one. Maybe I shouldn't even call it a profound, but, rather, "ME" message that is going to create a movement.....a shift in how WE as a people view one another, our earth, the destruction and the disease we have created here.

"I AM" the truth, the light and the way. Think about it.
Go see this Documentary
It WILL change your life.

Please...please....please...share this blog with your friends, we need you!

Tom Shadyac & Norma Jean

LA Showing-March 11th

Free The Slaves

What It Means To Be A SAG Member

2011-01-31T00:13:00.001-08:00

Colin Firth:
"This is really something," Firth said. "Until today, if ever I felt I had a trophy which has told me that something's really happening, it was my SAG card. To be part of this extraordinary collective, growing up in England, it's not something you'd expect to have in your wallet."

Oh my gosh, this was well said!!!

I have a SAG Card in my wallet too....I can't tell you how that feels, but if you have one, you know EXACTLY how that feels. I'm a VERY PROUD SAG Member. Congrats to all the winners of tonight's SAG Awards!

Tommorrow is the SAG Dues Deadline for SAG Award Voting!

2010-12-15T13:27:00.001-08:00

An Important Reminder from the SAG Awards

Want to vote for the SAG Awards? Be sure to pay your November 2010 dues! Thursday, December 16 is the deadline for paying your November 2010 dues if you wish to receive the SAG Awards voting information and any “For Your Consideration” screenings and mailings available to the eligible voting membership. If you’ve moved, you must update your address with the SAG Membership Department by the same deadline date.

Help the SAG Awards stay green by voting online. Voting information – with details on online balloting – will be mailed on Thursday, December 30. If you would like to request a printed ballot instead, you must pay your November dues by Thursday, December 16 and call (877) 610-8637 by 5 p.m., PT on Friday, January 14, 2011. Please note: THIS IS A NEW PHONE NUMBER, different from the one printed in Screen Actor.

**SAVE THE DATE** for the Sixth Annual Screen Actors Guild Awards® Viewing Party presented by the Hollywood Holiday Host Committee. Join your fellow members for a night of glitz and glamour as we watch the LIVE TNT/TBS broadcast of the 17th Annual SAG Awards® in the James Cagney Boardroom at SAG headquarters. Stay tuned for more info!

Please Support This Charity: Free Charity Cars

2010-12-11T22:26:00.000-08:00

Please, please, please...share this blog with everyone you know!

Dear Family and Friends,

It is with great humility that I update you on my situation. Recently, some things have taken a bad turn for me and I decided to seek out help. You see, I lost use of my car on October 18th. Coming back home from working on "The Cape," my engine blew in my car. This is something that is beyond repair.

As it stands, I do not have enough money to buy a car until perhaps March, so I've literally been "stuck" at home all this time. You may have heard from me, but you certainly haven't "seen" me much and this is why. Believe me, it's a very hard situation for me since you all know what a go-getter I am.

As by some miracle, I found a website that is called Free Charity Cars. I humbly created a page there and here it is:
www.freecharitycars.org/normajean

The way this site works is that friends and family create their own page there and vote for you once per day. I can vote back for you and once you have accumulated a minimum of 100 votes, the site will also allow you to transfer them back to me.

I have seen 10+ cars awarded since I went on this site for the first time in early November. There was one awarded in OC just the other day. I asked her how long
she'd been on the site and she said "Since April." She said, just hang in there, vote every day and you'll get the help.

The site also advocates promoting on Craigslist, FB, Twitter, all the ways that you can. I have done all this stuff, I even wrote to KFI today and asked if Bill Handel might interview the President of this Non-Profit.

The more the public knows about this site, the better for everyone needing help. There are a lot of people in OC and LA that need the word to be spread about this charity.

I for one, need your help. I have had three people so far create profiles on FCC and they're voting every day until I get a car. I am truly indebted to them.

Please, can you spare some time and help me out?

If you have any questions on how this works, go to: www.800charitycars.org

Please, spread the word to business associates, your friends and family. Put the website up on your Facebook, Tweet about it, tell anyone you know working in the Automotive Industry, etc. This is a worthy cause and if I'm lucky enough to be awarded a car I will remain a force for this Charity. I truly
believe in what they are doing to help others.

By the way, when you do sign up for this site, put my handle "normajean" as a reference, that will automatically generate 5 points for me!

A car could change everything for me and my sons...
Please?

Thanks for your time and God Bless all of you this Christmas,
Norma Jean

I would certainly appreciate your vote to help me during this time of need..

If you would click the button below, great things may happen!!

Thank you!

For information on how to make a donation or just more about this Non-Profit, visit:

www.800charitycars.org

Some other things you can do to help:

**PLEASE SIGN THIS PETITION FOR DEALERSHIPS NATIONWIDE TO PARTICIPATE IN DONATIONS AND HOSTING GIVEAWAY EVENTS

http://www.petitionbuzz.com/petitions/helpfreecharitycars

**Please, those of you that watch Oprah, please do your part to get the Founder of Charity Cars, Brian Menzies on her show! It would be so much to so many!

Please....sign this petition!

http://www.gopetition.com/petition/38447

**FOR SALE! A Taste of Charity cookbook, benefiting Free Charity Cars is available for purchase. http://www.tastebook.com/cookbooks/555750-A-Taste-of-Charity make sure you Enter FREECHARIT in coupon box at checkout. This benefits us all in $ donations, and raising awareness in new areas. PLEASE SPREAD THE WORD & LINK

When Kids are Disrespectful

2010-11-19T13:12:00.000-08:00

Under no uncertain terms will I be subjected to anyone many years younger than I outwardly disrespecting me. Nor, will I in no uncertain terms, keep my mouth shut when I see a young person cussing and acting inappropriately. Sure, we've all been there...the teens years, our early 20s...stupid things we've all done. But with time and with God, you have a chance to correct those wrongs and raise children of your own. Hopefully, the way you raise your own children will be better than your parents before you. At least, that's what I've always perceived in raising my own boys.

With that said, however, no matter how stupidly I (or any of us for that matter) conducted myself during that part of my life did I EVER disrespect someone older than I was. I think the same can be said about my whole generation. Back in the 70s and 80s, people KNEW what respect was. I called any adult Mr. or Mrs. So-and-so, Yes Ma'am/No Ma'am with my teachers, etc. The fact that even any parent would allow their own teachings to stray from this responsibility of respect, makes me angry and internally sick to my stomach.

It seems that this new generation of children (the parents' fault) have gotten away with everything they want to (and can) get away with.

So...my questions to pose to my readers....

Why don't more adults take charge of these types of situations?

Why don't more adults speak up? Why, because it's not "our child?" Are we THAT afraid of making the world a more respectful society?

Doesn't anyone see the problem here?

Precisely why we don't "discipline" other's children...It's not our place?!? I beg to differ....all parents should help one another. And all parents should seek the help they need if they can't raise their kids up to be respectful, contributing members of society. Instead of getting angry with another adult for correcting your child, maybe we should all try to learn something from them instead?

Our society was GOOD at one point, it was a fun life, where people respected one another and there was less crime than there is today. It all starts at home. If you don't think it's completely parenting at fault, you're mistaken. Give it more thought, you're in denial. See what you can change...together, let's join together as parents...help each other, love each other. When we see a child doing something that is not respectful, let's stand in each other's corner and support one another instead of "this is not your kid" attitude. They are all "our" kids......

Our children will be the ones that will run this country. It's vital to the human race as a whole they we stay aware and think of our future generations. I don't think that's something most of us think about enough...and we should.

My rant for the day...thanks for reading.

God Bless Everyone!

My Websites Soon To Be Under Construction....

2010-10-23T23:23:00.000-07:00

My son Brooks is starting his own Website Design and Development Company. There are many (some slight, some huge) changes coming. Out with the old, in with the new as they say. For now, my "main" place on the net is this blog.

If you want to see me in "action," I suggest a personal visit to my home and a friendly game of Scrabble (which I have).

If you are a Casting Director reading this, well...you probably already know what I'm capable of....so just call me, I need the money.

Love to all...
Stay tuned.

Becky Shaw at the South Coast Rep-10 Thumbs Up!

2010-10-23T20:55:00.000-07:00

First off, let me say that the beginning had me somewhat puzzled, but about five minutes into it, I finally figured out what the relationship of the first three actors was. Ok, so with that out of the way, let me continue..

I attended the preview night and certainly being an Actress you always expect a little "slip" here and there but I have to say that this went off flawlessly! I did notice and hear some tinkering in the back during the second half, but other than that, kudos also goes to the stagehands, flawless execution with GREAT scene changes. The sets were very good, tastefully done. I would like to point out, however, the first set, I could see a very distracting line in the wall around the door, which drove me nuts...a person like me will fixate on that thing and then sigh an internal breath of relief when the piece is finally removed from the stage. Please, God, fix that thing so it's smooth...there, I feel better.

This play was so well written...WOWIE! The storyline is very unique and I applaud SCR for picking it up. Joanne DeNaut (as always) cast this thing perfectly.

The story bounces from sister/brother (sort of) to mother to sister/husband, then off to Becky/sister's husband, sister/brother, sister/husband/Becky/brother/mother.....UGH!! I'm telling you this because be prepared, it moves!! The stories all intertwine, twists and turns, things revealed that all make the audience let out a big sigh like some sort of human accordion grasping for its next note.

About the Actors:

Tessa Auberjonois: Incredible as Suzanna, a realistic and emotional performance wrapped in comedy that will leave you never forgetting that face. The character cries for understanding and pleads for love, she delivers her real and with flawless execution. Her nose reminds me of Streisand, I was fixed on it...so beautiful. Her eyes speak to you...gorgeous.

Brian Avers: Shares the spotlight with Tessa as Max Garrett (Suzanna's adopted brother) in the most engaging and rivoting relationship I've seen on an OC Stage in quite some time. I have to say, he stole the show and the hearts of this entire audience. He is true to the character, which never waivers...a casting match made in heaven. Brian will win you over in some sort of love affair between audience member and character that you just can't explain...you HAVE to see this guy work!

Barbara Tarbuck: An amazing actress, certainly worthy of much more stage time than this character could offer her. She's absolutely, positively brilliant in her delivery, mannerisms and quick, tongue-devil punches that come out as she maintains complete authority as the mother of these two--and boy, do they need this woman! Barbara is one of my favorite actresses, you might have seen her on General Hospital as "Jane Jax," including guest appearances on "Medium" and "ER."

Angela Goethals: Not many actresses find it easy to pull off weird, sadistic, shy, coy and ignorant idiot all in one shot, but MaaaaaaaaN can Angela do it!! BRAVO for being one of the most pliable actors on the planet, girl!! I was simply glued to my chair every time something came out of "Becky Shaw's" mouth. Words cannot describe what Angela is capable of and well...you have to see it to believe it. BRAVO Angela, you are amazing!! You gained a new fan last night...in a fellow Actress.

Graham Michael Hamilton: Andrew Porter is the new husband of Suzanna who comes into the play with sort of "points" against him already. The audience is already perplexed at the point when you meet him. Andrew is a likable character with "rescue the maiden" on his mind and Graham portrays him very well. The poor character is sort of a little sad sack, but Graham makes him interesting and the audience wanting more of "who" this guy really is. A great portrayal of a character that turns out to be sort of "second rate" in my opinion, but alas, he loves Suzanna. I would really like to see Graham in some bigger roles, see more of what he can do, he's a great actor and his presence on stage was not only believable, but absolutely lovable and enjoyable.

Bottom line, go see this play. I laughed from start to finish and I can't remember a play recently that made me do that. Everything that went into this production is great from the scenic design to the costumes--OMG especially Becky Shaw's Birthday Cake Dress-see to believe, theater fans.

Kudos to writer, Gina Gionfriddo for a job extremely well done!

And to Pam MacKinnon, I could only HOPE to be directed by you one day...what a marvelous job you did!!

10 Thumbs Up! Go see Becky Shaw at the South Coast Rep through November 21st.

I'm going again...I really am.

I Love My Sons Soo....Much!!

2010-10-22T13:52:00.000-07:00

I Just Saved My Neighbor's Life

2010-10-21T17:36:00.000-07:00

With names withheld, I'll give you guys a simple recap of what happened this afternoon:

At approximately 12:45pm, I was sitting here, doing some email responses. I was finally feeling at least better enough today to get on my computer (I had been down for the last two days with something that had me bed-ridden).

All of a sudden, I heard screams and someone saying something about "I can't take this anymore." Sounded just like a typical argument, but then the blood-curdling screams came-three or four at most. My instincts took over, I went around the corner and grabbed one of my neighbors and just said "Come on! I'm going to find out where these screams are coming from."

Off we went....

I went to the doorway and sure enough, it was a neighbor I know quite well. I tried the door, it was open. I kept yelling her name, an eerie silence took over.....Then I bolted into the house only to find a man on top of her, strangling her with one hand and completely covering her mouth and nose with the other. Her face turning blue, close to death--half her face was covered in blood.

With all my strength, I pulled that guy off her and got her to safety. (Mind you, I don't even remember this part, it was my neighbor that said "Holy crap, you pulled that guy off her like a freight train!") I didn't even remember it, the adrenalin apparently took over-whoa.

I won't go into any other details, the matter remains under investigation. Frankly, the only thing that matters at this point is that she is safe and the Newport Beach PD are still looking for this guy. The helicopters have been out for the last couple hours. I'm safe, she's safe and I'm keeping a solid weapon next to my bed. By solid, I mean a baseball bat.

I don't know why I didn't punch this guy in the face, but I was in such shock I was just trying to get her to safety. God knows, if I hadn't followed my instincts, I'd be seeing yellow tape out my patio window right now.

God Bless Us All. If you EVER hear a neighbor scream, do the right thing. You just might save a life.

Please pray for my neighbor, she's going to need a lot of comfort right now.

Thank you for reading.

Runnin' on Empty...Almost

2010-09-29T20:34:00.000-07:00

Two years ago, I went through a VERY deep and dark depression...

Long story short, I went to see a therapist as well as a psychiatrist. It's a well-kept secret that I had been on depression/anxiety medication...until now. I feel that I need to share my story with others so that you know you are not alone and yes, even a social butterfly like me isn't always as happy as she appears. Surprise!!

I have been to three different psychiatrists (not by choice-thanks, CalOptima!) *that's sarcasm*

Each one of them very nice and very "in tune" with my symptoms and how to help me pull out of this.

For the first six months, I was placed on Prozac 20mg. All that did was make me irritable, lazy and overeat so much that I felt like a fat stuffed pig. I did feel "happier," but now I was drowning my insides with food. The more I could get booked on jobs in Hollywood, the more I was able to eat, so working did me NO good...ironic, isn't it? I think I took this for maybe four months?

So, I then went to the then current psychiatrist to tell her of my dilemma. She told me about Effexor XR and how it was "weight neutral" and may indeed make me feel better. So, I remember having to sort of "slide" into taking this drug in order to avoid any short of "shock" to my brain due to the difference in medication. I did pretty good with the 75mg dose (very low) for about two months.

Shortly thereafter, I started to feel the effects of depression again. You see where this is going, don't you? Well, I went up to 150mg and have stayed there ever since. The time lapse has been about one year now.

Recently, I was assigned to yet ANOTHER provider. She's really great and wanted to know if I was ready to come off the medicine. I was like..."AM I?" God has sent me a miracle! (I thought to myself)

So, I'm happy to say that as of Sept. 23rd, I have been reduced back down to 75mg. I will be on this smaller dosage for three months and then down to 32.5 for another three months. After that, it's goodbye medication!!

Although, I have talked to people that have come off Effexor and lived to tell about it (Actors and Comedians names I respectfully withhold), I thought, why not make a blog about my experience with this in order to help some other people learn what to expect. I've heard this a lot: "Norma Jean, it's NOT fun!" Me: "Oh joy."

Well, here we are, I'm ready to struggle through anything this thing dishes out. I just hope I can give a clear description to all of you of what I'm going through, feeling emotionally and physically.

I'm sure this will make me a much better actress! *ha*

So, today is September 29th....I will be adding to this blog instead of creating more and more entries, so watch for additional dated entries here.

September 29th:

Feeling like I can't get comfortable! I'm irritable, can't seem to focus on any one thing for too long. At the same time, I'm telling myself this will all be over by morning. I hope to God it is!! At moments today, I felt like I wanted to scream and climb out of my skin. Every little noise was intensified and I couldn't stand to hear any noise that I wasn't making myself-what an awful feeling.

Last night I had a vivid dream just like I remember when I first started taking the medication. Thank goodness, this was a good dream about a new home I had just bought vs. the nightmarish creatures that were present so many times.

I'm sweating easily...I never sweat, really. I can't drink enough water and I'm feeling like I don't want to do anything (physically).

I know darn well I need to exercise every day through this, but today I wanted no part of it. I just wanted nothing more to get all the work caught up on my computer. Did that happen? No! Why? Because of all the breaks, I have to keep getting up and literally shaking my limbs. I feel tense, uneasy and jittery.

So....(in Wendy Williams voice) how you doin'?

October 21st:

Well, ironically, since this day I posted, I feel completely normal. I guess it was just one day of "adjustments" that really hit me hard. So far, so good!! Thanks to all who were/are keeping my health in your thoughts, it's greatly appreciated.

November 17th:

Fit as a Fiddle, Happy as a Lark. No changes other than I seem to keep having this "JOY" that's only explainable in one word: Jesus

I Ask You...Is Rite Aid Cursed?? (And a small rant)

2010-09-15T14:25:00.000-07:00

Well, here we go again...same Rite Aid, but a tirade of a different sort. I guess I shouldn't say "Tirade," because it was quieter than that last stint with the crazy lady; however, just as unforgettable...

So, I'm there getting some Thrifty Brand Butter Pecan Ice Cream (which, by the way is just delightful!) and I'm standing in line behind a man buying a cane. Mind you, it seemed a little bit hard for him to stand, so I was wondering why he was not accompanied by someone or at least had a walker instead of a cane. He speaks to me and says, "Do you know if they have a handicapped line, Miss?" (which is Senior speak for...this line is too long, where's the express lane?") I said, no sir, I don't believe they do. That was the end of any question, they he gets out of line, goes to another line, discovers that is it longer than the one he's in.

Frustrated, he comes back to my line and of course, I'm now behind the lady that was in front of him. I saw him and said, "Sir, would you like to come back up here?" He said, "No, I'm ok." (which is also Senior speak for I am pissed off).

He then comes down the right side of the line with the new cane AND the one he's going to buy and asks the clerk if he can take them and hang onto them until he gets up to the register again. He cordially says "yes," and the man goes back to the end of the line. I'm thinking to myself, "this is nuts, why won't he just get in line?"

So, one of the management staff (female) opens up another register...asks this same man, "Would you like me to ring you up over here, sir? I can get your canes and take care of you right now." His response? "No, I'll wait here." She then asks if I'd like to come over to her line and I say, "sure, no problem, thank you" and off I go to her line.

Here's where the funny comes in!!! While she's ringing me up we both sort of "pause" the transaction and look at each other like we want to hear what this man is going to say to the male clerk that's running that register...

Here it is:
Man: "Why don't you guys have a line for handicapped folks?"
Clerk: "We try and accommodate anyone with a disability by opening another register and waiting on them as quickly as possible."
Man: "Well, that's just stupid, every store should have a disabled line."
Clerk: "Sir, we do have an express line, but when there's this many people, it serves us better to open more registers."
Man: "Well, I still say it's stupid. Ok, give me a pack of Marlboro Reds in the box, so I can get out of here."

Manager and I look at each other in shock and our mouths about hit the floor. There were no words to be said, we understood each other perfectly. I smiled through my shock and said, see you next time, have a great day. She was still standing there with her mouth hitting the floor, then I noticed three people in my same line had that same look of shock on their faces.

As a society, why are we so scared to speak up against the smokers? Especially ones like this? Unhealthy apparently and then smoking on top of it? I was a smoker for many years. I WISH someone cared enough to get all over my case-no one ever did. Bottom line, if you VALUE yourself more than cigarettes, you WILL quit. Excuses like "I can't do it" are plain and simply, bullcrap. There's no other way to put it. People that consistently drink, smoke, etc. are putting those "vices" ahead of their own lives. It's a sad thing to watch, isn't it?

How did I quit? True Story-I stood in front of a mirror, held the cigarette next to my face....I sat there and stared at the cigarette for a long time, taking in the thought of how much bigger (in mass) I was than that small cigarette...millions and millions of molecules (or whatever you want to call it) bigger than that cigarette. And I looked at myself, then the cigarette, then myself, then the cigarette again....and I said out loud a few times over..."I want to live, you will not control me." After a few minutes, I felt I had beaten the enemy, I threw out every cigarette I had and never smoked again. It IS that easy, if you say it's not, well, then, YOU don't CARE about YOU.

Yeah, keep smoking those cigarettes, smokers, you're going to miss out on more years that we (the non-smokers) will. Not to mention, you'll look as nice as these folks in your old age-enjoy! Puff puff!

Cream Puff Must Retire

2010-08-12T13:42:00.000-07:00

I surely hate this, but it seems inevitable....Cream Puff will have to be traded in for a new car. She's got more problems with her now and well, it's either trade her in or keep fixing her.

Getting rid of a car you LOVE is not easy. I don't think I've ever been so attached to a car. I have to wonder, is it the nostalgia itself or is it the fact that I've named her? She is, after all a 1985--the same year as my high school graduation and she's also in damn good "exterior" shape for her age.

I dunno, maybe it's because she's become my "baby" and everyone I work with knows that car, hell, they even know her "name" ...a few have been fortunate enough to take a spin in her-you know who you are.

Mercedes rules!! ...but it's looking like I'm (trying) to move to a Honda Hybrid, which I'll affectionately call "Pooly."

The Tirade at The Rite Aid

2010-07-26T15:35:00.000-07:00

Sometimes, I just can't believe people. This woman was in front of me in line. She asked the cashier, not to ring up two of a certain item and that she'd like her to put the other one back. Mind you, she already has a "tone." For the cashier? Ok, easy enough...

So, the cashier gets really flustered (I can't blame her) and rings it up anyway, just blanked out I guess? Well, it happens to everyone. Understand, there was a line of about ten people in each line, only two cash registers open. On top of it, she had "Miss Attitude" to wait on.

So, the lady looks and her and says, "Oh, that's great customer service!" I could not believe what I was hearing!! In order for the cashier to fix the problem she needed to have an override done by the Supervisor. It was fixed I tell you within just 1.5 minutes. The lady snatches and I mean snatches that receipt out of the girls hand. In the midst of my disbelief and the woman behind me, the woman talks all the way to the door "I can't believe this, the service these days, blah blah blah.."

I am dumbfounded, so is everyone else that saw this happen. I just had to say, "I'm so glad I'm an actor, I give you a lot of credit, girl...I could never do this job." The lady behind me said, "I almost was going to say something, but I didn't want to give her daughter any more bad impressions of adults."

Yes, that's right, this woman had her daughter with her and she was witness to this behavior. I can only hope it teaches her how "not" to be instead of how to be.

The cashier? She never said a word-kept a smile on her face and was nice to that woman to the bitter end. What a trooper!!

I'm thankful: I'm an actor and not a cashier. I'm also glad I'm a good mother who's brought her boys up right.

Seriously, I think we should all defend the cashier when crap like this goes down. If I could relive yesterday I would have stepped in, now I'm angry with myself that I didn't. *sigh*

My Mom Started a Blog!

2010-07-25T20:54:00.001-07:00

I hope you'll tune in!

Bev on Everything

Welcome to My Blog!!

2010-07-25T19:53:00.000-07:00

Just want to take a moment and welcome all the subscribers of the "Norma Jean Weekly Dish" to my online blog. I appreciate you making the move here and hope you find the blog informative and fun to read.

Thanks for supporting my career,
Norma Jean

Career and Fun!

2010-07-25T19:38:00.000-07:00

This last week has been a joy! I've found out I'm going back to "Men of a Certain Age" this coming Friday, July 30th. (Thank you Carla Lewis, Mike Royce and Ray Romano for giving me a steady role!) I love our show, it's a really great thing it's coming back. I do hope you will all watch! More about air dates, etc. as I get them.

This last Friday was my first day on "Mad Men" and I was cast as a Waitress at the "Tip Toe Inn." No word yet if this will be a recurring role, but the Director, Lynn Shelton seems to have liked my work :) I got to meet Christina Hendricks and John Slattery. They are fun actors who do a great job. Crew was super, they treated me like I'd been working on there since the beginning-I felt so welcome and seriously hope to have a permanent home there as long as the "Tip Toe Inn" exists.

I'm working on securing a part-time Casting Assistant position with a great Casting Director, we're still communicating on it. This will allow me to make some extra cash, work "behind the scenes" better understanding the casting process as well as allow me a flexible schedule to attend more auditions.

Lastly, I was chosen for the role of "Miss Poppenguhl" in "Moonlight and Magnolias" at the Huntington Beach Playhouse. Here is the Event Page, I do hope you can attend. The play runs August 13 - September 5.

Spark OC Puts the Spark In The Local Entertainment Community

2010-07-05T20:23:00.000-07:00

I just have to say that I've loved this website since its inception. I'm just now realizing, TODAY, *sad face* that I could place an artist profile within the site.

So here it is:

Norma Jean on Spark OC

I do hope you will take a moment to enjoy Spark OC, it has everything you could want when it comes to finding entertainment around Orange County.

HAIL SPARK OC Creators...I LOVE YOU!

Now Volunteering for Book Pals

2010-06-10T18:42:00.000-07:00

Yesterday, I met up with Robin Roy at the SAG Foundation. I am now a Volunteer for Book Pals. This summer, I will be reading to a group of underprivileged children in a Long Beach school every Monday afternoon.

What is BookPals?

BookPALS is founded on a clear premise: children must be exposed to the magic of books in order to develop a love of reading. The world of literacy and literature is then opened to these children by the very people who make books come alive through their talent and training. Who better to instill that love than actors, gifted in the art of storytelling?

Through our more than a decade long focus on early literacy we have identified several key obstacles that many children, especially those for whom English is a second language, face in their developmental process. In addition to our core reading aloud program, we have expanded the BookPALS program to address these primary obstacles through innovative programming that reinforces the BookPALS mission.

Something Extra.....

Storyline Online

In 2001, the SAG Foundation was given a generous grant by Verizon to create five digital videos featuring professional actors reading quality children’s books. These imaginatively produced videos fully captured the intricate illustrations, colors and textures of each book. Those initial 5 stories turned into an internationally recognized website that currently streams 19 stories featuring celebrities including Jane Kaczmarek, Bradley Whitford, Sean Astin, Esai Morales, Amber Tamblyn, Eric Close, and Elijah Wood.

Storyline Online also features supplemental activities for each book developed by an early literacy specialist. Together, the videos and related curriculum strengthen comprehension, verbal and written skills of English language learners worldwide. Available twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week, free of charge, Storyline Online ensures that every child who has access to an Internet connection can be exposed to a story.

We always appreciate any generous donations to our cause. Get involved by reading or donating...both are just as important:

https://secure.groundspring.org/dn/index.php?aid=17502

I Support LGBT Community - "A Place To Live"

2010-06-10T18:24:00.000-07:00

Special Screening:

Screen Actors Guild Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) Actors Committee Proudly Presents A Special Screening of the Award Winning Documentary Film "A Place to Live” on June 18th.

I encourage anyone that supports the LGBT community, especially its elderly, to please attend this screening.

Followed by a Q&A with the Producers & Director and Surprise Guests

“A Place to Live” chronicles the journey of seven brave individuals as they attempt to secure a home in Triangle Square, Hollywood, the nation’s first affordable housing facility for LGBT seniors. Since demand far exceeds the number of available apartments, a lottery system was set up to determine who would be selected to start a new life in the facility. This documentary film is a moving, heart-breaking, but ultimately uplifting exploration of the applicants’ personal journeys as they move through the lottery system. The scarcity of affordable housing is a deepening national crisis and LGBT seniors are often discriminated against, forced back into the closet in retirement homes, or separated from their significant others in assisted living facilities. This wonderful, Award winning film brings shines a bright light on the issues of neglect and marginalization of our elders. It is a must see cinematic experience that lifts the human spirit and touches your heart.

Check out more information on the film by logging on to www.aplacetolivemovie.com.

The LA Weekly Review, in its review of the film has said “Director Carolyn Coal follows seven elderly gays and lesbians from the time they first hear about the building of a housing complex for senior LGBT folk in early 2006, through the excruciating wait a year later to hear if they've won the lottery for admittance. As the seniors share their stories of illness, poverty and homophobia, they prove themselves heroes and heroines whose humor and resilience are as inspiring as their hardships are heart piercing.”

When: 6:45 p.m., Friday, June 18, 2010
Check-in begins at 6:30 p.m.

Where: SAG James Cagney Room
5757 Wilshire Boulevard, Ground Floor
Los Angeles, CA 90036
Parking will be validated

RSVP Required at agentquestion@sag.org. Members are permitted to bring one guest to the screening and must confirm the name of their guest with their RSVP.

For more information please contact Screen Actors Guild at agentquestion@sag.org or call (323) 549-6729.

My Curve Crapped The Bed And I Can't GET To Bed!

2010-05-28T02:13:00.000-07:00

Well, for months now, I've been clearing the temporary memory, deleting my emails, texts, etc. All this to open space for new messages without the "dreaded hourglass" controlling the speed of my life.

Being that I had to chauffeur tonight, I had no time after a meeting and an audition to get this phone backup done. When I got home, I realized that the darn Blackberry Desktop Manager was not installed on my laptop. Why? Because I forgot to re-install the darn thing the last time I did a "wipe" of my lappie--UGH!! I want to shoot myself right now.

UGH!! So, now it's 2:15AM, the darn install is sooo stuck and I have to get this done so I can have peace of mind (not to mention a faster phone) on the set of "Weeds" tomorrow.

Please, send some good Karma this way...I'd like to at least have two hours of sleep before I have to hit the road at 5am.

Call time 7am, it's going to come faster than I want it too :(

Darn you Curve!!

RIM, I still love you.

Where There's Love, There Is Work

2010-05-25T13:29:00.001-07:00

Anyone who knows me knows I LOVE my work. It means so much to me to be able to do what I love. I enjoy the long hours, the sets, the crew...the whole process of being a television and film actor.

Albeit that this career is "win some, lose some" it still affords me to live at least covering my necessary bills, etc. Plus, I live in Corona Del Mar...very fortunate.

This past couple months I have worked on some great projects: Tom Hanks's "Larry Crown," Ivan Reitman's "Untitled New Film," Miranda July's "The Future," An F/X Pilot named "Sweat Shop," and last Thursday you might have caught me on the "Freddy Spaghetti" episode of Parks and Recreation.

What may seem a lot of work to some is very minimal to me. Before the writer's strike, I can remember working 6 days per week as a non-union actor. I was pulling in pretty good money and had ONE JOB-acting. Since Hollywood has not seemed to fully recover, I still maintain a second job. Although I like my job, I often wish I could survive with just acting and nothing else.

This past Saturday night, I was fortunate enough to be in the audience of my acting coach's (David Dean Bottrell) show, "Streep Tease." He did an amazing interpretation of Karen Blixon from "Out of Africa." Watching David just amazes me--he has so much talent and really knocks it out of the park when he performs. This makes me also reflect that I'm lucky enough to be a student of his-a real working actor seems to be a better teacher than one that just "teaches." Well, that's my take anyway.

During the past week, I ended yet another 14-day stint on the Master Cleanse and lost some weight-which I desperately needed to do. I talked to some friends about the Master Cleanse--some interested, some tried it, some are still doing it and some reamed me a new ass, telling me that's a stupid thing to do to your body-that there's no nutrients. Well, the way I see it is, it doesn't kill me and it certainly cleans out the pipes and clears my skin up to boot. How bad can it be? Aren't their religions that fast for a 30-day period once a year or something? What religion, I couldn't tell you-I just remember hearing that.

Ok, I'm jumping around a bit here, but I just wanted to touch all the aspects as they come to me.

A week and a half ago on a Friday night, I went with my kiddos and some friends Ice Skating. Lucky me, I fell (twice!). Both times I fell on my knees and now my right knee is in constant pain. This morning I had an x-ray and everything seems to be fine but I will have to wear a brace and go to physical therapy (not sure how long yet).

After I got done with the doctors and whatnot, I ventured down to the Newport Beach Police Department to get a ticket correction (smog/registration). That was quick and easy, no ticket now :) Ok, so I got lazy and didn't get it done in time. I learned my lesson...that was really stupid of me. After I got done at the PD, I walked across the street to the Chamber of Commerce to talk with Jim Villers about membership. I'm still tossed if I will be joining both the Newport Beach Chamber and the Corona Del Mar Chamber or just one. The idea is to network my Voice Over Talent to businesses as well as providing entertainment (standup comedy and lookalikes) for local sales rallies, company holiday parties, etc.

I will be volunteering my time as the Voting Inspector for Newport Coast next month. Giving back to the community is something I value and I believe everyone should do their part. I have also been working for the Census, I felt it's also a good way to give back. The Census work allows me to also get out and meet my neighbors up in Newport Coast (that's where I'm doing most of my work). I've been praying I would end up at Dean Koontz's door, but no such luck yet (smile).

Perhaps next week after my darn knee feels better, I'll be grabbing Victor Vega's extra beach cruiser and we'll be doing Balboa Island and enjoying each other's company. We live so close, yet, I hardly see him or his wife, Terry.

Tomorrow morning, I will be going to both the SAG and the AFTRA offices for meetings. At AFTRA, those of us that serve on the EEO/Women's Committee will be making our final recipient selections for this year's Ivy Bethune Diversity Awards. Stay tuned and I do hope a lot more AFTRA members can make it to this year's ceremonies. Last year was very entertaining, you don't want to miss it!

Last year's winners: Cheryl Burke, Charlie Hill, George Takei and Dr. Victoria Ann Lewis

Oh...I guess I should update everyone on my other health issues I've have in the last couple months. Long story short: I had a Brain MRI-no Pituitary Tumor-all is ok. I had a Nuclear Heart Test-no abnormalities-all is ok!! My prolactin level went up for a bit there, but I guess that was just a fluke also....a sigh of relief!! Thanks to everyone for praying for me.

In case you're wondering what's going on with my newsletters, I'm starting the Norma Jean Weekly Dish back up this Saturday. The "Background Check" Newsletter that I do for the Background Acting Community will kick back up on June 1st. If you aren't already a subscriber, send your sign-up request to me at: msnormajean@gmail.com

On a last note, I invite all with a healing need to join us Monday Nights at 7:00pm for Refuge at Rock Harbor Church in Costa Mesa.

The definition of Refuge:

we are all broken…every single one of us. many of us either define ourselves by our brokenness or we completely deny it. we may try to hide from our struggles or try to fix them on our own and often wind up in even more pain when our efforts fail. that’s because we weren’t designed to solve our problems alone. REFUGE is a safe place where we can honestly and confidentially share our lives with people who care. we are a community of individuals who once felt alone and defeated, but are now helping one another move towards health and healing.

our effort is modeled after the ministry of reconciliation described in paul’s second letter to the church in corinth. paul says that “all this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation.” (2 cor 5:18). our intention is to be a place where men and women are restored to what God intended them to be, and having experienced this reconciliation, would then help others do the same. we utilize many tools in this effort including Biblical teaching, worship, open share groups, 12 step studies, art therapy, and other curriculum based experiences.

REFUGE gathers every monday night from 7 - 9 PM. during the first hour we meet in the lab and enjoy teaching, testimony, and music together. during the second hour, we break up into the issue specific groups listed below. you are welcome to simply show up and attend the gathering from 7 - 8 pm as well as the open share groups from 8 - 9 pm.

For even more information, visit REFUGE here.

May you always do what you love, but do it through the Lord.

Have a good week everyone,

Norma Jean

I'm So Tired!

2010-03-26T23:20:00.000-07:00

Oh my gosh, this whole last two and a half weeks have been grueling (health-wise). Starting two weeks ago, I came down with a cold/flu like bug that made me exhausted, have night sweats, constant coughing and headaches. All those symptoms have finally left, only to now be blessed with what seems to be chronic fatigue. I have been sleeping at least 14 hrs a day and can't seem to get much done.

Accomplishments that used to come easy like getting my financial stuff in order (bills, etc.) and keeping the car clean have become extreme challenges.

As I even sit here typing this, needing to get it off my chest, I'm surrounded in receipts still left from February that need to be put into my spreadsheet. For an A-Type personality such as mine, this kind of unorganized desk is a nightmare teetering on the edge of failure!! If only I could stay awake long enough or have the desire to sit here long enough to get it done. Typing thoughts helps, I guess.

Just a few days ago, my good friend and fellow actor Carl Miles died, young. He was such a breath of fresh air on set, such a good man, I can't believe he's gone. Losing a friend that's only in his 50s makes you think about your own mortality, doesn't it?

My acting coach, David Dean Bottrell, just had a portion of his column this week was reprinted on the Writers' Guild Blog of Great Britain-that's so cool.

Yesterday, while spending a little "awake" time on Facebook I found an old friend that I used to not only go to Junior College with in Watertown, but lived across the street from in Kelsey Creek Apartments-what a nice surprise. Then, while on there, I found a bunch of my nieces and nephews from my first marriage-I'm still the favorite Auntie I'm finding out! That made me feel very wanted and loved. I also found my ex-husband on there, I'm not sure how I feel about that; although, we do get along somewhat better these days, which is a good thing, especially for our 22 year old son.

I'm going to try and stay here at this keyboard and at least get my February spreadsheet done. I was supposed to go to an orientation for the Newport Film Festival tomorrow morning, but I know my body won't get up early enough, it's just not in the cards and right now I feel really crappy.

As far as my health goes, I'm praying this is not a pituitary gland tumor or just as bad, hyperthyroid...something just very simple that can be corrected with medication. My youngest son is watching over me and taking very good care.

Before I close, I was just thinking how wonderful it is to be an actor and even though I'm having this problem and there's little work coming in, I'm blessed to be doing what I love.

Last night, I managed to get to Andy Garcia's screening of his new film, "City Island." It was great, Robbie's first walk on a Red Carpet with his mom and his first official screening. He loved it!! I was very awake too...imagine!! Watching indie films like this give me hope that one day, some producer is going to discover all the talents I have to lend to a film. Recreating characters and studying human behaviors, bringing them to the screen for thousands of people to enjoy--that's my passion.

Andy Garcia said last night-know your craft as if you were a doctor. He's so right, and I'm confident that I do.

Love to all of you and goodnight,
Norma Jean

Haven't Written In A While....

2010-02-15T15:58:00.000-08:00

My updates I suppose are not as often as I'd like but at least I get them done.

Highlights of the last two months:

1. Been taking a scene study class from David Dean Bottrell

2. Scouting for new representation, both Manager and Agent

3. Moved (most of you know that)

4. Just had my birthday this past Saturday and BOY was it a fun time with great friends! We even had Karaoke. I received a huge bouquet of flowers and a lot of candy from Richard. I got GREAT gifts from friends which I definitely wasn't expecting. Thanks, everyone, I love you so much!

5. On Valentine's Day, I went to the Hip Kitty in Claremont to hear my friend Jules Day sing. Boy, did Richard and I have a fun time!

6. Got booked as Bev for a very big comedy show on April 16th:
Fox Event Center
123 Cajon Street
Redlands CA
April 16th , Showtime 8PM

I hope everyone can make it!!

7. Been in contact with neighbor, Spencer Brown, CEO of www.rentagreenbox.com. We are in talks to create something with Bev for his website...stay tuned for details!!

That's it for now, I'm getting back to updating a lot on my websites and getting www.allthingsnormajean.net launched (I no longer have www.allthingsnormajean.com) up.

Have a good night everyone and please leave a comment, ok?

Norma Jean

New Photo of Me and My Guys!

2009-11-30T00:39:00.000-08:00

Studio Talent Group Audition

2009-11-28T07:50:00.000-08:00

Well, Monday evening I called and made my appointment with Phil Brock. It's amazing how I even secured this audition. But, I can tell you, I've been looking at STG for about six months now. I got up the nerve to ask Phil if I could please send in my credentials and sure enough, he said sure! So, I sent off my resume and a few different looks to him immediately following. About a week and a half after that, I wrote again. Phil, just checking in-what did you think of my work? Answer: Call the office next week for an audition. I COULDN'T believe what I was reading, people!

OMGosh, if you don't know who Phil Brock is, you're not doing your homework as an actor. Phil served on the Board of Directors for the Talent Manager's Association in 1999 and still holds "Full Member" status. Phil's acting experience is vast, holding membership in all three acting guilds. He is also a member of the Academy Of Television Arts and Sciences.

I have prepared two contrasting monologues and 16 bars of "With One Look" (sung by the character Norma Desmond) from Sunset Boulevard.

I am nervous yet excited and have full intention of joining the ranks at STG. Please see Phil's "Character Women" division on his website. I'm going to fill that blank spot there, I'm going to make it happen for me!

Here's to Monday @ 3:45pm! Cheers! (Prayers appreciated)

NJ
Studio Talent Group

Talent Managers & Agents - What I've Learned

2009-11-28T06:30:00.000-08:00

I wanted to write an entry here to touch on what I've recently learned. It seems that Hollywood Agents are now, more than ever, seeking out Managers for referrals of talent. I attended an Agent Panel at AFTRA recently which included some big guns from the likes of Osbrink, House of Representatives, The Stone Manners Agency, Premier Talent Group and The Brogan Agency.

They said a few major things that every actor should know:

1. Only focus on a few agents for submissions and keep after ONLY THOSE that you really want to rep you. Sending out 100 headshots won't do you well if you're trying to land at XYZ Agent as your top pick, etc. You'll waste money and time and you'll be too "all over the place." Make decisions for your career and be committed to finding the right agent for you. Look on their websites and do your homework--are you truly a fit for their type of roster?

2. They do open every submission.

3. Managers are their greatest allies. Scott Manners said that he never used managers but now he's using them for his sole source of talent and communication in landing actors where they fit best. They work together as a "family" and the results have been great. He encourages every actor to seek out a manager if you don't already have one. Talk to your agent, see if they recommend someone.

4. If you have an agent, don't ever seek out or hire a manager or visa/versa without letting your first representative know about it. If you were to do so without their knowledge, that's like getting married without telling your parents. DON'T DO IT! And...wouldn't it just be awful if you hired on someone and the two were enemies?! *gulp* Another reason for DON'T DO IT!

5. Don't ever think you're not getting submitted for jobs if you're not getting auditions-that is an insult to them as they are working very hard for you. Don't you think that would be a stupid thing for them to do since "the family" benefits from your working? Especially you!? who they believed in and took on in the first place?
Instead of being negative, talk to your agent, find out what YOU can do to help YOUR career. They can't do it all for you.

6. Learn how to market yourself and be YOUR OWN BEST AGENT too. There is something to be said about those that are business-minded actors. Those are the ones that make it first, it's been proven. All actors must have a "Brand" and if you don't, you better find a way to make it happen. There are lots of other actors that are good with the "business" side of show, don't be afraid to ask for help.

It's my hope that these "best" points from the seminar help all actors reading this.

Enjoy your Saturday...
With Love,
NJ

Stone Manners Agency
6500 Wilshire Blvd
Ste 550
Los Angeles, CA 90048
(323) 655-1313

House of Representatives Talent Agency,
400 S Beverly Drive, Suite 101
Beverly Hills, CA, 90212
(310) 772-0772

Osbrink Agency

The Premier Talent Group

The Brogan Agency

Attention Actors Who Need Voice Over Demos!!

2009-11-28T05:30:00.000-08:00

Actors who need a CHEAP yet quality VO demo!! I'm now partnered with Speedy Voiceovers and "Speedy" would love to do your demo CHEAP!! You don't have to pay $450 for one, that's ridiculous!! Visit the site now and get that demo done to submit to your agents!

Currently, there's a "Starving Artist Special" Get a complete voice over demo for, get this...ONLY $150

Here's the link and when you email "Speedy," be sure to tell him that Norma Jean sent you.

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Here's what Speedy did for me!!
Norma Jean's Official VO Demo

Little Fockers

2009-10-23T01:00:00.000-07:00

So, kids, I have been cast in this movie playing an "Upscale Parent." I go to set for the first day tomorrow (booked for four total). I am completely a MESS at the thought of POSSIBLY seeing Barbra. Anyone that knows me knows I think so highly of her. She's always been my inspiration for my work and how I will excel in my career. In a dark childhood, her music and movies are what kept me moving and positive. Some of my friends still say, "I don't know how you got out of that family with such brilliance." Well, the answer is simple...Barbra gave me hope. To some, that might sound like a silly statement, but I've always viewed her as my mother. The mom I never had. Of course, I do have a mother, but that's a sob story for those closest to me-they understand.

I don't know really what else to say here, but let's just see what happens tomorrow. I should sleep-I'm just so excited, nervous, silly, overwhelmed, thankful and joyful. How's that for a basket of emotions before work? Gosh, I will get about three hours sleep tonight, if that.

*Fingers crossed that I meet her and DON'T faint!*

NJ

Here's an update and some funny photos from the set!

Well, Barbra wasn't there today but De Niro and Ben Stiller were. This was the 2nd time I'd seen them. I worked with De Niro on "What Just Happened" and with Ben Stiller on "Tropic Thunder."

Although I was disappointed that my girl wasn't there, I did manage to get some flirting time in with Bobby...check it out!

Ok, so it's Ali, an Iranian form of De Niro....ya take what you can get, ya know?

Do You Have Any Halloween Plans?

2009-10-04T15:21:00.000-07:00

Made plans yet for Halloween Night? Here's a GREAT time!!

Halloween Night! "A Spirited Murder" A Murder Mystery Dinner Theater Show at Dave & Buster's (The Block in Orange) 7pm, $35 incl. Dinner & Show-Norma Jean Stars!

If you've never seen me perform in a show like this, now's your chance!

I hope to see you there!
NJ

Seeking Manager and Agent: SAG, AFTRA, AEA

2009-09-24T11:22:00.001-07:00

I am currently on the hunt for both a Theatrical and Commercial Agent.

As far as Theatrical goes, I would like said agent to be affiliated with all three unions. I am a member of AFTRA, serve on the EEO/Women's Committee. SAG Eligible and will join both SAG and AEA over the coming year.

As far as a Commercial Agent goes, please be either or both SAG and AFTRA affiliated.

I am driven, hard-working, professional and value relationships in this industry. I seek agents that will both recognize this about me and seek to use those traits into making us both happy and profitable.

If this describes you as an agent, please contact me.

Thank you,

Norma Jean

The Burning Plain

2009-09-22T20:00:00.000-07:00

I have to post my review on this movie because I feel, well, it deserves one. I went last night to see this movie at our (mostly) Indie Movie House down here near South Coast Plaza. For those that wish to see the movie, visit Regency Theaters

There are other locations listed there, not sure if they are all showing this film.

Anyway, it took all of about 15 mins or so to figure out the plot. I hate to be able to figure it out so quickly!! The directing was very good, cinematography far exceeds excellence-finely portraying each characters' surroundings and the depth of each character.

Alas, I hated the ending. I won't ruin it for you, but let's just say I favor a more definitive ending (that's just me though).

I wouldn't say that Charlize Theron is the "star" of this, but rather, the younger version of her character, played by Jennifer Lawrence. I feel for a younger actor, she blossoms in this role. The feeling of this character on screen is believable, well-executed and done flawlessly.

As far as the other characters, it really wasn't believable that the other children were that of Kim Basinger, they looked nothing like her.

Kudos to my friend Brett Cullen who I know from my days on "Make It or Break It." He did a fine job in his role (small, but quite notable).

José María Yazpik also gave a stellar supporting performance, no question.

Kim Basinger delivers another great performance and I'm so glad to see her again, it's been too long.

I DO recommend going to see this, I loved the concept. Very well done and worth the ticket money.

Let me know your thoughts too?

David Dean Bottrell

2009-09-18T00:48:00.000-07:00

Tonight, I went to the "Impressive Auditions" Seminar sponsored by AFTRA. I was tired, not wanting to drive all the way to Hollywood, feeling a little "blase," not really "into" sitting for two hours. But, when I got there, as always, my spirit changes and I'm in a better mood. Something magical about being in that Frank Maxwell Boardroom...I guess it's the feeling of pride and accomplishment that I'm not only a professional actor but I belong to a great union.

So what if we're smaller than SAG, it's a great start for me and what I inspire to be. One day, I will make a lot of people very proud, especially my boys.

Ok, so onto this glorious night.

I tell you...the MINUTE that David Bottrell starts to speak, I am captivated, mesmerized, moved, elated, gleeful, happy to be alive!! I wanted to jump out of my seat and shout!! I've finally found my acting coach!!!! Holy toledo, you just can't describe it. I'd scrub floors for this guy to mentor me. Am I getting too "Cinderella" on you guys? LOL Anyway, anyone that knows me at all, knows I've never once RAVED about an acting coach. I'M RAVING, I'M RAVING NOW!!!!

Well, if you saw what I saw tonight and you're only half as excited, then you didn't get "him," which is perfectly ok. But, I think for me, David would be the perfect teacher. There's something about this man and his teachings that was screaming to me....THAT'S who I am as an actor, a character-driven, life-inspired orgy of fun, "weirdness" and creativity!! BINGO!!

A lot of people are asking me on FB, why all the excitement? What did you learn? I can't explain it, folks, I just can't. It's like one of those moments that you have this huge acting epiphany after all the community theater, after all the commercial and student film auditions, after all the commutes, the tears, the disappointment, the struggles, the celebrations....the KNOWING that you're talents are meant to be shared with the world....it all comes together in one two-hour period in a room where all I can feel is my heart pounding and pounding and it's louder than ever!

To those wanting to know what I learned. Here's my take:
Relax, listen and give the performance of your life every time. Being an actor is the most FUN job in the world so have fun! Stick around-people will keep seeing you, keep up your skills.

I know, a lot of you have heard these same things over and over and over again. I know I have...

But, something....something HUGE, hit me like a ton of bricks tonight. A breakthrough, a turning point? I can't tell you....I just know the first thing I did after I said goodnight to David one final time in the parking lot and got into Cream Puff for the drive back to Newport Beach I cried my eyes out! I have found a burning fire inside of me this evening that no other instructor could pull out of me. I then called Pam and arranged for 24hr Fitness tomorrow. It's time to get in shape because dangit, I'm going to audition from here on out with a proverbial fire coming out of my ass. And...that ASS will be looking hot! Watch out!!!

I LOVE MY JOB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you God!

I love this man....

The Reviews Are In for Lend Me a Tenor

2009-09-04T23:32:00.000-07:00

On Theater:
Laugh at Tito again
By Tom Titus
The Daily Pilot
Thursday, September 3, 2009

You may be able to quote upcoming lines from memory when you watch the frantic comedy “Lend Me a Tenor” at the Costa Mesa Playhouse, but chances are you’ll still be laughing just as hard as you were the first time you heard them.

Playwright Ken Ludwig (he’s billed as Kenneth in the Costa Mesa program) has built a career on turning back the clock and focusing on regional show business (“Moon Over Buffalo,” “Leading Ladies,” “Twentieth Century”), but it’s his “Lend Me a Tenor” that local theaters have seized on with a vengeance.

It’s set in 1934 Cleveland, where the local opera company is awaiting a famous guest artist, Tito Morelli, to sing the title role in its production of “Otello.” When the great one finally arrives, after consuming some wax fruit and an overdose of prescription pills, he’s dead to the world — or at least to the opera manager and his assistant.

The latter pair concoct an improbable scheme whereby the assistant dons Tito’s costume and impersonates him at the performance. Great idea, except for one thing — the real singer is very much alive.

There’s a rich 1930s feel to director David Anthony Blair’s accelerated production, along with a generous dose of period-intensive farcical interpretation.

Most prominent in that regard is Jaycob Hunter as the quick-witted assistant who becomes an overnight star and tackles his romance problems in the bargain.

Hunter revels in the frenetic tempo of the show, shifting from one facet to another with alacrity.

He may not physically resemble Tito (who stands a head taller), but in costume and makeup, who cares? Certainly not the comely daughter of his boss (Bethany Hamrick), whom he’s endeavoring to win.

Hamrick plays it straight and narrow up to a point, that point arriving when she engages in a torrid fling with the tenor she believes to be Tito. Meanwhile, Tito himself is enjoying the favors of his Desdemona (a seductive Barbara Gibbs, also the show’s costumer) in the adjoining room.

Gordon Marhoefer is fine as the constantly rattled opera manager, while Paul Burt is a richly robust Tito. The showstopper, however, is Norma Jean Riddick as Tito’s hot-blooded Italian wife, who consistently addresses him at the top of her voice.

Veteran actress Shirley Romano — in a glittery gown that makes her look, as one character comments, “like the Chrysler building” — beautifully sells her brief scenes as the opera guild president. And Travis Stolp insinuates himself irreverently into the action as the star-obsessed bellhop.

The art deco setting — credited to director Blair along with Dave Carleen, Jessica-Elisabeth and Kathy Kline — is beautifully accomplished, and Gibbs’ costumes are elegantly rendered. John McQuay’s sound design — operatic accompaniment during the vocalizing sequences — is impressive.

“Lend Me a Tenor” may be one of the more familiar plays on the local circuit, but it’s still good for an abundance of laughs at the Costa Mesa Playhouse.

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"Lend Me A Tenor" Sings Along In Perfect Pitch

Wednesday, September 2, 2009
The Daily Voice
By Jill Fales

Costa Mesa Civic Playhouse officially kicked off its 2009-10 season last week with the opening of the comical "Lend Me A Tenor" directed by David Anthony Blair.

"Lend Me A Tenor" first opened in London’s West Side in 1986 where it ran for 10 months. The Broadway production ran for 476 performances.

Set in 1934, the play centers on the Cleveland Opera Company's production of "Otello," starring the beloved and very famous Italian tenor, Tito Morelli. The theater manager Saunders is sure that having Morelli perform will put Cleveland Opera Company on the map.

After Tito's arrival, through a series of small mishaps, Tito passes out from too many tranquilizers and too much wine.

When theater assistant Max goes to wake up Tito and take him to the theater, Max cannot wake him and believes he is dead.

Saunders begs Max to impersonate the great Tito Morelli; he has $50,000 and his entire reputation riding on the success of the show.

In addition to writing a hilarious farce of mistaken identity, double entendres and the rise of an underdog, playwright Kenneth Ludwig affectionately pokes fun at the world of opera. Opera, as it turns out, is playwright Ken Ludwig’s first love as he writes in his newly launched blog on his website:

“Lend Me A Tenor, of course, is about the world of opera; and I wrote it partly to honor that world that I loved so much. “

Not going to see Lend Me a Tenor at the Costa Mesa Playhouse is more than a missed opportunity to see superb community theater; it is a missed opportunity to laugh, which we all need to do more.

Among my favorite scenes were the passionate Italian marital spats between Tito (Paul Burt) and Maria (Norma Jean Riddick). Their chemistry, timing, and accents were hilarious.

While actors Burt and Riddick gave glorious, loud and passionate performances, Jaycob Hunter who played Max mastered the subtleties that made his performance tremendous. He reminded me of Jason Alexander’s nervous and neurotic character George Costanza from "Seinfeld."

It takes great skill to make the audience believe that you are one character who then tries to impersonate another. Hunter did it flawlessly.

The story is set in the hotel suite of Tito. I am always so impressed how a community theater, lacking any real budget, can stage such a believable and detailed set.

Leaving the Costa Mesa Playhouse, I half expected to see a hot dog cart, or someone hailing a cab. But turning onto Harbor Boulvard, and seeing Norm's, I was forced to accept I was still in Costa Mesa.

"Lend Me A Tenor" will play on weekends through Sept. 20; Fridays and Saturdays at 8 p.m. and Sundays at 2 p.m.General admission is $18; Students and seniors get in for $16. 661 Hamilton St. in Costa Mesa. 949.650.5269. www.costamesaplayhouse.org

Wowie!!
Here's a comment that I found on the Daily Voice Website:

READER COMMENTS (1)

I am looking forward to seeing this play soon. Having seen Norma Jean Riddick in other performances I am a true fan.

Photos from "Lend Me a Tenor" by Mathieu Photography

2009-08-31T23:20:00.000-07:00

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Press Release - "Lend Me A Tenor"

2009-08-18T16:41:00.000-07:00

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE:

Monday, August 17, 2009

FOR MORE INFORMATION:

Mike Brown, Producer

(949) 650-5269

THE COSTA MESA PLAYHOUSE PRESENTS

KEN LUDWIG’S POPULAR FARCE

LEND ME A TENOR

August 28 to September 20

The Costa Mesa Playhouse continues its 43rd season with Len Ludwig’s popular farce set in the world of opera, Lend Me a Tenor, winner of three Tony Awards and four Drama Desk Awards. One critic described it as, “a furiously paced comedy with more than a touch of the Marx brothers.”

In 1934, Tito Morelli, the greatest tenor of his generation, is set to sing Otello at the Cleveland Grand Opera’s gala fundraiser, but he hasn’t shown up and the manager of the opera company is desperate, setting into motion an hilarious chain reaction of mishaps and mistaken identities by an ambitious opera diva, an amorous fan, a jealous wife and a singing bellhop, among others.

Lend Me a Tenor is directed by David A. Blair, who previously directed the playhouse’s acclaimed production of The Full Monty. The cast features Jaycob Hunter, Bethany Hamrick, Gordon Marhoefer, Paul Burt, Norma Jean Riddick, Travis Stolp, Barbara Gibbs and Shirley Romano.

Lend Me a Tenor plays Fridays and Saturdays at 8pm and Sundays at 2pm, August 28 through September 20, 2009. Tickets are $18 general admission, $16 for students with ID, seniors and for all seats at the August 28 preview performance, $23 for the August 29 champagne reception opening night gala, and $13 per person for groups of ten or more. Reservations can be made on-line at www.costamesaplayhouse.org or by calling 949-650-5269. The playhouse is located at 661 Hamilton Street in Costa Mesa.

Men of a Certain Age

2009-08-14T14:16:00.000-07:00

Well, let me start this blog by saying, I'm absolutely in heaven about this little part. It also made me highly curious about when I worked on that pilot. After sifting my organized vouchers, I get way back to August of last year and there it is.

I was thinking while looking for it, oh GOD! Please don't let it be ART Payroll...PLEASE!! Turns out, it's CAPS, which is EeeeeeeGGScellent-mwah ha ha!! (That's a statement only insiders will get, sorry fans!)

I have to thank Carla Lewis, a Casting Director friend since I started working in film/television in 2005. Carla is the one that cast me in this part and it was a week ago tomorrow that she called me at 8am asking: "Hi Norma Jean, it's Carla. Do you remember that show I cast you on a while back with Ray Romano, Men of a Certain Age?" "Yes." "Well, it's been picked up by TNT and I'm casting you as a permanent Waitress. You are still working, right?" "Yes, of course I am, it's my life-didn't you know that?" *couple giggles* "Ok, well, you're going back to work on Monday the 17th, I'll call you with details before next weekend." "Ok, thanks!" "Oh, wait, Carla! Is this an AFTRA show? I just wanted to remind you I'm an AFTRA member." "No, NJ, it's SAG." "They're going to be using you a lot since the diner is used frequently." "I'm in shock, Carla...thanks soooo much!" "You're welcome Norma Jean, you're going to be great." *end*

I was seriously in total shock!!

So, this morning, Friday, August 14th at 10:40am, Carla tells me I'm going to a "New" Norm's at Paramount Studios. *we laugh* She said, "I'll be sending you an email with all your details, make sure you respond so I know you got it." "Sure thing." "Ok, congrats again and have fun on Monday."

Wowie, does that firm it up or what? So, I'm still sitting here waiting anxiously on that email. Is this really happening? I have a recurring part on what promises to be a super hit show? *Hypothetically Faints*

All my dreams, my hard work, my endless days and my unknown number of 100-mile round-trip commutes to Hollywood-finally I'm getting a break. Diligence, professionalism and belief in myself are paying off and I'm so excited! Ok, so I cried this morning....Ok, ok...so I cried twice after that phone call....

So....Let's switch gears and go back to how this whole thing started:
So, my work date was August 13, yesterday was the year mark. Funny that we'd begin shooting almost a year to the day (we go back for Season 1 start on Monday, the 17th). Anyway, I remember that day pretty clearly, so I wanted to recap for you guys. I think this just may end up being nostalgic blog, especially if I get lines down the road, which will be the first in a professional production.

You know, I'm thinking. Weird how Ted Turner bought this show and I'm such a fan of Jane Fonda-I know they're divorced, calm down.*ha*

On that first day, about 10am....Scott Bakula asked me, "What brings a girl like you to a trailer like this" (hair trailer-we were getting done up at the same time). It was pretty cute and funny so I really can't wait to see him again. Do you guys remember him from Quantum Leap? If not, do your homework. Scott's a great actor and super funny! Scott also appears as Brian Shepard in "The Informant" a new movie starring Matt Damon.

And then, of course there's Andre Braugher who was incredible in "The Mist," one of my favorite Stephen King movies to date. He also did a kick-ass job in Poseidon. He should be a LOT bigger star than he is, the guy's incredible!

Last and most importantly, Ray Romano (Everybody Loves Raymond) whom I didn't get to speak with, but I'm hoping to on Monday. Since I'll be on set there a lot, I'll be sure to get a lot of fun pictures for you guys and put them here.

So, let's go back a little. So I worked that August 13th, 2008 from 9:30am until my sign-out time which, according to my voucher shows 2pm. It was a short day, to say the least. I do believe we were shooting at the Norm's at Woodman and Sherman Way in Van Nuys. I don't tend to make enough notes in my database about my location shoots, I guess I should?

I remember being directed by Craig Miller, 2nd AD who I also worked on Parks and Recreation with. Great guy, I've worked with him on a bunch of stuff. He's definitely making a name for himself.

So in my Waitress role, I basically had to pour coffee, respond to principals (slightly) and check on some other tables--that's about it.

I'll keep this blog going with future stories and photos from the show. I think it will be fun for you guys to follow its growth and "birthing" season.

Take care and please wish me lines!!

Love to all from "The Waitress,"

Norma Jean

And...KISS MY GRITS!

Bethany Owen's Show at the Balboa Bay Club

2009-06-23T23:27:00.000-07:00

Let me just say, this show was magnificent! My friend Bethany Owen performed here in Newport Beach for the first time in a very long time. Hardly, does Bethany perform locally as she is on the road most of the year. This show was a thrill! I was so excited during the first few characters I forgot that I should be taking pictures...ugh!!

I had my picture taken with friends for the Balboa Bay Club's newsletter and magazine highlights, which was great. A lot of friends came out to join us, between mine and Pam's table, we had 28 guests, I am sure I brought the most people :)

If you haven't already visited Bethany's website, please do so here:
www.bethanyowen.net

If you'd like to book Bethany for any private or corporate spots, please contact her Manager, Jim Whirlow through the website. I'm sure Bethany will have some great media write ups about tonight's show, so please look for them!

Bethany is truly a remarkable talent--I'm so sad for those that couldn't make it :( I am truly blessed to call her friend.

Sorry, there's no sound, but you get the picture. Judy Garland singing over the rainbow which was just out of this world!

Haven't Written Here In a While....

2009-06-23T17:43:00.000-07:00

Wow, I was looking at this, thinking...I really should use my blog to WRITE in my blog, not just for special occasion posting.

So, here I am with a plastic cap on my head, listening to Streisand and processing yet another dye job of the best red which is my signature.

Let's see, I'm definitely not going to write here and update you on a whole year's worth of events but I can sum it up with probably a few sentences, cool?

I have stopped producing so many comedy shows and I also dropped my Saturday open mike. I felt that I wanted my weekends back. I gave up two years of Saturdays for the comedy cause and well, it's time to move on. I still have my big Norco show but it's currently on hiatus per the venue.

In the acting world, I've been a part of some great movies like "Funny People," "Get Him To The Greek," "Opposite Day," "The Goods," "Maneater," "Step Brothers" and of course, "Dr. Horrible's Sing A Long Blog," which all my friends are so jealous over :)

TV Shows I have been on and have had cameos: "CSI:Las Vegas," "House, M.D.," "Brothers and Sisters" and "Glee." There are quite a few more, but those are the biggest ones I can think of right now.

Comedy performances: Haven't been doing a whole lot, really. I have been focusing more on my acting since that is what really pays the bills. I think I needed a break, too. I will be back on stage, however, on June 28th, right here in Newport Beach. (see flyer)

On a personal note, I'm still with Richard, it will be three years in October. He's my best friend and love and I'm so lucky to have him as a big part of my life. The boys are doing great. They just turned 15 and 21. Brooks (my oldest) is still at the same job for the past three years. Robbie was playing trumpet this year in school, he's out for the summer and just playing his butt off with his friends. Makes it kind of lonely around here and of course, I don't have that early routine anymore. I miss it, because now I'm sleeping in too much!!

My friends are all about the same, haven't lost any but I've sure gained a whole lot more. Speaking of that, I found over 50 people from my 1985 General Brown High School class and some other peeps I know from Watertown. I owe all that to Facebook as it seems the ole' MySpace really didn't work for that. Maybe everyone hated it, I dunno.

Well, that's it for now. I'm off to rinse and get ready for my friend Bethany Owen's show tonight at The Balboa Bay Club.
See: http://www.bethanyowen.net

Until my next blog, blessings to all..
Norma Jean

The Night I Met My Comedy Idol, Lily Tomlin

2008-03-27T19:55:00.000-07:00

I cannot express what this was like!

Thanks to my wonderful guy, Richard, I was blessed with front row seats and a spot at a meet and greet on March 22nd at the Riverside Municipal Auditorium.

If you are fan or friend, you already know how much "characters" are a love for me and that Lily Tomlin was not only a light in a dark childhood, but THE influence of all things comedy to me.

It started with Laugh In and continued from there. Watching Edith Ann and Ernestine as a child, I have vivid memories of her on TV when she was younger and taking over America's hearts.

I can remember so many times doing my Edith Ann and Ernestine impersonations....I still do them :)

Amazing, sitting there watching her doing probably? about 15 characters in a two-hour show with no props...just her, two bottles of water and energy that would make even a 30 year old jealous.

Here's what happened at the meet and greet:
We heard some laughter coming from the hallway and then she entered. Lily stands about 5'6"-7", about 130 lbs. I guess? Great skin, hair, simple yet oh so elegant!

I was probably in some sort of "frozen state" as I couldn't even believe I was in this same small basement room in Riverside (of all places) with my funny heroine. She speaks out, "well, come on, don't be shy!" Everyone laughed. I took the opportunity to get the first alone moments with her. Cameras were snapping everywhere.

"Lily, my name is Norma Jean. I'm a comedian too."
"Well, you know my name's really Mary Jean"
I smiled big, "Yes, I know that."
"I just want to tell you, you've been my biggest comedy influence. Because of you, I started doing characters with my comedy. It's such a pleasure to meet you."
"Well, it's good to meet you too."
"One thing I wanted to be sure to tell you, I worked with you on 12 Miles of Bad Road. You were way across the courtyard at that big mansion patio up in Pasadena where we were shooting."
"You know, they didn't pick it up."
"Yeah, I know, I was very disappointed. I love that show."
"I asked the PAs where you were so I could introduce myself and meet you. I went up the hill as one sent me to your wardrobe trailer. You were already changing for another scene and they wouldn't let me see you. I said, "but she's my idol...please, please."
"Sorry, if we weren't on such a tight schedule..."
"Lily, I cried all the way home, I was so sad."
She was holding my hands the whole time I was telling her this and I'm sure she was moved.
"Here's my card, I'd love for you to visit my site and see what I'm doing."
"Ok, I'll do that."

Reporters shouting: "Here Lily, Over here Lily"
As we posed and they started snapping away.

Lily (Mary Jean) Tomlin will be 69 this year. I still can't believe it. If I look this good at 69, I'm going to BRAG about my age! And, yes, the name similarities are ironic, aren't they?

I could only DREAM that she'd consider me for protege status before she retires.

People, I held my tears until I got back to the car and cried for a good five minutes. I don't usually hold it in when I'm excited but this time I did. I think Richard was shocked too...haha!

Here's some great memories I want to share with my readers:

Press Photos by: Rose Botkin-Beuck

Dr. Horrible's Sing A Long Blog - Yes, I Worked On It!

2008-03-27T15:41:00.000-07:00

Well, there's not been anything EPIC to blog about since my experience on "10 Years Younger" until now.

Last week, I filmed for two days on this (what is all the buzz) new media endeavor of one of the first "real" online movies (est. time about 30 mins). This production will not only make media history, but it will be all the rage with many. A clear combination of musical, comedy, drama, moral story, villians, superheroes, the damsel and a full cast of homeless folk, shelter volunteers and important townsfolk.

The music and lyrics, movements, the stunts, the essence that can only be captured by none other than THE Joss Whedon.

Neil Patrick Harris plays "Doctor Horrible"
Nathan Fillion plays "Captain Hammer"
Felicia Day plays "Penny"

I was blessed to have played a volunteer at the Homeless Shelter Soup Kitchen and another short scene where I'm (I think?) featured. I can't divulge too much just for the sake of Mr. Whedon's privacy, but you'll probably see it, nonetheless.

Here's how it went down, for your die-hard Whedon fans out there:

PA: We need a good strong woman.
Me: Right Here!
PA: Ok, let's go to set.
Me: Placed and ready.
1st AD: You ok with this?
Me: Yes
1st AD: What's your name?
Me: Norma Jean
Nathan: Hi, Norma Jean
Me: Hi Nathan, very nice to meet you.
Nathan: So, you're ok with this?
Me: I'm a New Yorker, nothing scares me.
Me: What's my eye line?
Joss: Right at Nathan.
Me: Ok, I'm ready.
1st AD: Ok, let's run a practice real quick.
Me and Nathan rehearse it, laugh...ready to roll.
1st AD: Ok, let's shoot it!
Roll camera, action!
Scene done.
HUGE APPLAUSE
Joss comes over and shakes my hand.
"Great work Norma Jean, really great."
Me: Thank you so much, I really appreciate the opportunity.
(all the while I'm jumping OUT of my skin...HOLY CRAP! I just did some work for Joss Whedon? How the hell did THIS happen? How does a meager girl from Upstate NY get to this spot. I was reflecting on that a LOT! I felt that same way when I got a hug from Tom Hanks...it's just incredible the things that have happened for me since last year when I quit working for the man to pursue my dreams)
Me to Nathan: Nathan, could I have a picture with you?
Nathan: Sure, you got a camera?
Me: Yes, I'll get it and be right there!

Here's the prize for a 14 hour day:

Fans, eat your hearts out.

My fellow musical lovers/actors...be prepared to be dazzled...this is going to be HUGE!!!

The songs and lyrics are incredible. The electricity of the actors unmatched and certainly, noone does a story like Joss Whedon. His directorship was superb!

Someone pinch me, I'm a small town girl who just made some Hollywood history.

Love to all,
Norma Jean

10 Years Younger: A Chronological Memoire. An Unforgettable Journey of Self-Confidence & Inspiration

2007-09-01T17:11:00.000-07:00

Back in May, I got an email through an "insiders" list that I belong to. It stated that "10 Years Younger" on the TLC network was looking for new makeover candidates for its' third season.

The email had an email contact with instructions to send certain information along with a collection of untouched, un"makeup'd" photos.

Being that I had always wanted some changes to my appearance that I absolutely hated, I decided to give it a shot. Mind you, over the past three years I had two on-camera interviews with "Extreme Makeover" and another with "The Swan." I don't know why I was never selected for Extreme Makeover-maybe I didn't need such extreme help? And The Swan, well, I was up for consideration but they wouldn't push me through to be on the show because I didn't have my own "private" insurance. Don't you have to be at least well off to even OWN private insurance? Was this show just for people that could probably pay for these procedures out of pocket!? Perposterous...really was. Anyway, their loss now....they lost a good story in the process.

My story is complex and sad, as you will witness on the show, but I want you to know a little more about me before you proceed reading all about my journey:

I was married twice. Both times I was left with infants while my husbands both left me for other women. My first marriage only lasted a few months, with my husband running out on me, only 20 years old and pregnant with no guidance or help. You see, all my life my mother has been psychologically ill so I've basically been fending for myself since my brother's birth at the age of eight. Since that time, I took over as my own mother and his. So, there I was with a baby on the way and scared to death. He didn't even come to see the child until he was two months old. Ever since then, he's totally ignored his responsibility and love for his own son. The last time the boy saw his father was eight years ago now.

The first husband's name (YES, I AM CALLING THEM OUT!) is John E. Rockett, 40 years old, Memphis, TN. He is African American, 5'6", approx. 140 lbs. and works for his father, Samuel Rockett. If you know this man, stay away...he's violent, a drunk, a drug abuser and uses women like rag dolls. I have a recent police report on him and domestic violence was his last charge, only a year ago...he's still at it!

I married again (stupidly now that I look back) at the age of 25. When I was 27, I was giving birth to my second son. This husband also turned out to be physically and verbally abusive and that has transcended into today's mental abuse that he still tries to "feed" me, but I don't take it sitting down. Upon the delivery date, while we had time for a dinner break, my husband (as I later discovered) went over to his "girlfriend's" house to have dinner and then planned to return to me for the birth. The day after my arrival home from the hospital, the phone rang in the morning and it was a woman's voice. She asked for Rob and I remained calm and gave him the phone because I already knew. I heard, "I thought you said you were sleeping on the couch." That is all I needed to hear. Immediately I parted ways.

My second husband's name is Robert Riddick, Sr. He resides in Waterbury, CT. He is 42 years old and is re-married to wife, Stacy. He is also African American, 5'9", approximately 165 lbs. Last I knew, he worked for Head Start. If you know THIS man, he's a manipulator and a liar and has never owned up to his mistakes. He has NEVER respected me. Stay away from him too...he hides behind the Bible as his protection...it's all bullcrap!

It was from that point on that I worked and went to school, most of the time two jobs at a time, never able to spend the kind of quality time I wanted with my kids. I had to FIGHT just to keep a roof over our heads and clothes on our back. I did my best to secure a college education for myself and good paying jobs so my children would never want.

Still, to this day, my older son does not have any communication with his father and he owes over $30,000 in back child support. The younger son's father just wants his way with everything and has never apologized to my face. He makes demands about seeing the child, yet, get this -- the last plane flight I was about to book for him to go and see his father, it was an "inconvenience" for his father to retrieve him at 1 am, even though he hadn't seen him for a year and a half!?...aaaand I was paying for the ticket out of my own pocket. I think that any woman in her right mind would make HIM pay for the ticket...(especially if she gets just over $100/month in child support) or maybe she wouldn't even grant him visitation? I think I'm a HELL of a nice lady given the situation. Mind you, for three years I also drove my son to see his father in CT (a six-hour drive at my own expense) because Robert Sr. refused to drive to Watertown to pick him up because of "all the bad memories there" and he refused to "cross the state line into NY" because of them....what crap -- grow up, right!?

These men just walked away from their kids and put it all on me. I still to this day absolutely and positively HATE these men for what they did. They show NO remorse and absolutely have never reached out to help in any major way or to heal this pain. Even Dr. Phil couldn't change these cold-hearted men, trust me.

Ha...they both went and had more kids too, when they can't even afford to take GOOD care of the first ones...FREAKING INCREDIBLE!!

So...the story goes...two bad marriages, both mentally and physically abusive. I still have flashbacks of the chocking, the slams against the wall, the prodding of my forehead, being pushed into furniture, the hits to the arms, legs, and face.

One of the many reasons to seek a makeover was to have a new "look" to erase the memories of "this" face, if that makes sense to anyone?

It is my goal to reach out to other women that I might save them before it's too late. I wish to travel around the country speaking my story about my experience on 10 Years Younger and my life experiences. I wish to reach out to women that think there is no way out and make them listen...be strong...be proud...be a survivor!

Now that the sad part is over, onto the good stuff...the story of how I was transformed!

May 21st was the date, I sent in pictures which reflect all the things that I don't like about my appearance. At this point, I was also up to 160 lbs. and feeling terrible about myself. Here are those pictures:

Drooping Face, Signs of early aging.

Chin/Mustache Hair and Scarring

Yellow Teeth, Discolored Front Tooth, Crooked and Ugly Canines

No profile definition, I have no "chin"

Later that same day, I got this email:

Dear Norma,

Great chatting with you on the phone. This email is to confirm that your interview for 10 Years Younger is scheduled for:

Friday, May 25, 2007 11:30AM

So....on May 25th, I went up to Evolution Productions office to have a face-to-face camera interview with the casting director. I remember breaking down in tears because of a couple reasons: 1. I wanted this very badly and 2. I was overwhelmed with pain talking about my situation and how I had gotten to this point where I felt so terrible.

Then....a long waiting period ensued. It was exactly four weeks and then on June 28th, I got another call from Evolution. "You have been moved up in the casting process!" Ironically, I was coming out of a good day's news, I had just landed two roles in two straight to DVD movies. One is called, "Shadowman" and the other is "Vampires of LA." I was on an actress "high" then I got that call and yes, I lost it again! The tears were just streaming down and I felt confident that I could do this. With the way Evolution and TLC work, this doesn't mean, however, that I made it on the show (according to their paperwork).

A couple days after that, I received the casting packet in the mail with a 38-page contract.

Then, my email started to blow up with appointment after appointment.

On July 2nd, I made my first trip to Dr. Zweig's office for my dental consult. Here is a picture of us:

Dr. Zweig is an incredible dentist and I feel very secure in what he will do with my mouth overhaul.

Here's his website, for those interested:
www.beverlyhillsdds.com

On July 8th, I started with my personal trainer, Carlos Vazquez, owner of Newport Coast Fitness.

www.newportcoastfitness.com

I work out at least three times a week now, getting prepared to be at my absolute best by the end of August. Carlos is very helpful and encouraging. I reached 160 lbs until last month when I did a two week Master Cleanse before meeting up with Carlos. The master cleanse gave me a 20-lb. weight loss start and I now own a "clean machine," as I am also eating every three hours to boost my metabolism and healthier to boot!

On July 13th, I had my first dermatology appointment with Dr. Griffin. Here is a picture of us:

Dr. Griffin is famous for his work on Extreme Makeover and I was just estatic when I learned he'd be working on me.

Here's his website:
www.griffinmd.com

On July 27th, I had a complete physical including an EKG at Cedar's Sinai Medical Group on Wilshire. I was given a clean bill of health by Dr. Kenneth Redcross, who was really great! Unfortunately, I don't have a picture of us together :(

On August 4th, I was informed that Dr. Griffin would now NOT be doing my dermatology portion and that I had be reassigned to Dr. Cynthia Boxrud. I made my first visit to her on August 6th. I have to say that Dr. Boxrud is incredible. She was asking about my eye and I told her that no arrangements had been made for a cosmetic lens for me (which I asked for but did not receive any appts. for). She said, "No, you have to have this, I want you to have this." Immediately, she left the room and made a phone call to a good friend of hers, Dr. Richard Silver. Dr. Silver is a specialist in cosmetic lenses. Without hesitation, he said he'd love to do it. From there, she called Carl at Production and it was set up, just like that. I was so overwhelmed with gratitude I lost it yet again. I was so thankful to this woman that made something happen for me that I didn't think was going to happen.

I am amazed with what Dr. Boxrud is going to do for me.

Here's her website:
www.drboxrud.com

On August 7th, we filmed at my house for the first time. I was also joined by San Diego resident and makeover candidate, Jennifer Brott. They filmed us both at my house to save travel and time. The crew arrived at 2 pm to film. About 2:30 they did Jennifer's interview, setting up in one living room of my house to make it seem as if it was two different locations. They also had her bring clothes and we make-shifted one of my son's closets to be hers and they filmed her looking at her clothes and showing how she dresses. She was also filmed in my downstairs bathroom reviewing her face and the things she doesn't like about her appearance.

After Jennifer was done, then it was my turn. Through the whole interview I was very emotional and could not stop crying. The pain of having to talk about these things on camera really hit me and I was overwhelmed. Once that was done, it was off to my closet to sift through my ugly and old wardrobe. Then, it was onto the bathroom. I looked at myself with the camera on me and pointing out all the things that I don't like: my eyes, my upper lip dark spot, my chin and mustache hair, my chinline, my sagging skin. After that, we went downstairs where I was filmed doing some dishes, sweeping and talking with my son. He also did a small interview about what his views and wishes for his mom were. Brooks was not home that day, he had to work, unfortunately.

The crew I met today for the first time included: Cyra (Field Director), Steve (Camera) and John (Sound) and James (PA).

Here's some pictures from the day:

Me with Jennifer Brott

Me with Cyra

Robbie with Cyra

On August 10th, I was scheduled for the box. At 5:30 am I picked up my hairdresser and friend, Hilary Landis who volunteered to spend the morning with me for support. Later, we were also joined by Max and My, my friends that own Outlaw Beef Jerky. They came to support and we had a lot of fun in our "holding room" at the Renassaince, Room 2013. Also there, was Zina and her daughter (I can't remember her name). Zina was scheduled to go into the box after me.

When we arrived, I met some new people that worked in production, including Susan who is another field director. She was so wonderful to me, I can't express the connection I felt with her.

Here's a couple shots of me in the box!

Here's a picture of me, looking out over the Magic Castle below (from the 20th floor of the Rennaisance Hotel), reflecting on everything and how my life is about to change, starting today.

Here's one of me, Hilary and My after I came upstairs from being in the box. We had a fun time, even though we couldn't go anywhere.

Here's My's Husband, Max.

So.....here's how the schedule played out for my first box appearance:
1st: videos on the podium of the befores.
2nd: going over the questions that Jorge will ask me.
3rd: go into the box for one minute for some 360 shots, which was so fun! Steve was all stealth with the camera, it was incredible to watch him work. I was laughing on the inside until I could get out of there. I told him his new slogan should be, "I give good camera."
4th: rigged with sound and ipod, great easy listening music!
5th: in the box for the duration of 20 minutes or so. I could read people's lips and hear some of the stuff being said in between songs. I heard some kid say, "she looks like she is about to be a grandma." I heard another lady say, "52" Ouch!! I won't tell you my average age yet, I'll let you hear that on TV.
6th: out of the box and upstairs to holding.
7th: an hour later, back downstairs to go over questions again with Cyra and have the playback of comments and interview with Jorge. It was emotional and I did cry a bit, but not like the first time. There were paparrazzi out there taking photos, so who knows where I will end up on the net.
8th: back upstairs to get everyone and go for some lunch. Hilary and I said goodbye to Max and My and went for food.
9th: back downstairs to say goodbye to the crew and get my "before" picture with Jorge:

August 13th was my visit to Dr. Boxrud where we filmed all my procedures:
Cosmetic Lens fitting (sent over by Dr. Richard Silver)
Eyelid lift
Laser Hair Removal
Chin Area (fat removal)
Fat Injections (nose to mouth corners crease)
Botox to lines between brows.

Here's some pictures from the day and healing as it goes along each day. (sorry if any of these bother you) By the way, the cosmetic lenses are amazing! Those pictures come later, after I am properly fitted.

Me Just Before Surgery...very excited!

Me and Dr. Boxrud, minutes before anesthesia. I remember singing tunes of My Fair Lady then I don't remember anything after that.

Here's a pic I took at 4:30 am the next morning. I was restless, my eyes hurt, I couldn't get comfortable no matter how hard I tried. The frozen pea pack on my eyes made me irritable, I was just a mess. In this picture, I was thinking I just want to heal by tomorrow...this discomfort is killing me. At the same time, I was thinking...wow, my eyes are going to be beautiful when this long healing process is over with.

This picture I took a couple hours later, probably around 7 am...I was feeling better and ready to get to Dr. Zweig's office for my new teeth.

My friend and roommate John stayed close by my side in case I needed anything. The first few days, his assistance was wonderful and I couldn't have done it without him.

August 14th was my visit to Dr. Zweig where we filmed all my procedures:
Veneers (temporaries)
Bottom Teeth Whitening

Here I am making full use of my new handsfree headset on the way to Beverly Hills to see Dr. Zweig.

Close up shot of the bottom teeth whitening procedure.

An ariel shot...I look like some sort of dental advertisement, don't I?

Ouch, ok, here's the two minute injection of novicaine through this special thingy that Dr. Zweig uses. It actually puts the novacaine exactly where it needs to go to those eight specific top teeth. Amazing!! The downfall? The damn needle goes up into the roof of your mouth in back of your front teeth. NOT the most comfortable thing on the planet, but, I kept thinking...just a couple hours to a beautiful smile, hang in there!

This is me, after the numbing was administered...now, I wait.

Then, the procedure begins....Here's a few pictures of Dr. Zweig at work:

And here's my new temporary veneers...wow!

And before I left, I had to have another picture of Dr. Zweig and I. Ha...I don't understand how I was smiling there, I couldn't feel anything from my nose down. I guess happiness and elation took over the novacaine.

The first two days of recovery (from both of these procedures) were not so bad. I can honestly say the first nights were the worst, but I was never thinking "what the heck am I doing?" I was shooting for something that was bigger than I could have ever done for myself. For that, each second I am so thankful to Evolution, TLC and the crew that gives of their time and talents to make people beautiful.

So, here's what I looked like on the morning of August 15th (Wednesday morning, two days after surgery) around 9 am.

I seem to have the start of more black and blue under my eyes, hopefully this will go away quickly so it's not apparent on my reveal day.

And the morning of the 16th, here's how I'm looking! Here's a picture taken at 9am.

So, after I get up and have a good breafast the events of August 16th begin.

I visited Bob Hale for my fitting. We had no film crew there today, simply a fitting and a look at the things that would be considered for my reveal outfit. It was great fun!

http://www.halebob.com/

Here's some pictures of the day:

Here's me with Julie (center), the off-camera stylist and her assistant:

After leaving there (also on August 16th) later in the afternoon, I returned to Dr. Boxrud for suture removal and follow-up general lookover.

Here I am right after she removed the stitches..no more blue string. I cried big tears when she took those out. It was NOT fun! She also informed me today she also put fat at the bridge of my nose to elongate the effect...I had no idea she did that, but now that I take another look, I am amazed!

And of course, another photo of Dr. Boxrud and I. I return to her office on August 27th.

After leaving her office, I made my first trip to Dr. Richard Silver for him to have a good look at my eyes and do an exam. We made plans for me to return on the 27th as well for a proper fitting and to start wearing my new contacts. I am truly blessed to have these contacts and he will also be supplying me with not just one pair, but a few that will last me. I am SO thankful!

Here is a picture of Dr. Silver and I:

So, a break until next week, here's a photo progression of my healing for the next few days....

August 17th, 7:30 am

I was so out of it here, but I wanted a "raw" picture. I was also extremely tired because I'm on sleep medication to help me rest. I have to wear this head bandage at night to keep my chin tight where the fat was removed. I will have to remain wearing it to bed until the end of the month...as you can see, not too happy about that either.

August 18th, 8:30 am

A little happier this morning, I took this after I went on my first walk for an hour...felt really good to get out and move my body. I actually talked to a friend on the route...who knew someone else would be out at 7:30 am on a Saturday? Not very usual for my sleepy neighborhood.

August 19th, 8:30 am

My left eye is still considerably swollen compared to my right. The inside stitches have not come out yet. My eyes still feel "gritty" when I close them but on today's morning walk, I could feel that there is not as much "heaviness" in them as yesterday. I felt good this morning.

August 20th, 7:00 am

Well, more swelling has disappeared, it's looking much better today. I took this right before I went on my walk, had a good sleep, I'm happy.

August 21st, I went back to Dr. Zweig's office for the placement of my permanent veneers. Here's a picture of the finished product..wow!

Sure is a far cry from this!

I did take another picture of my face to show you the progression, but I took this one at 8:15 pm, after the swelling and numbness wore off:

I had just come back from my evening walk and took care of some legal matters at the same time. I was not feeling too peachy about the legal jumbo, but I was definitely feeling great about myself.

August 22nd, I visited Planet Salon in Beverly Hills where I had my hair done by the new TYY hair stylist, the AMAZING Gina Derry. Go to the profiles section of the website to see her bio and headshot:

http://www.planetsalon.com/

I took my good ole' friend Hilary with me again so Hilary could check out that salon and perhaps dream about her own salon in Beverly Hills one day...

Gaaaawd...we started on the road at 5:30 am just to beat traffic and perhaps enjoy a nice breakfast together, which we did well! Hilary and I did justice to our breakfasts, let's just say that. We went to Jan's Restaurant Coffee Shop on Beverly Drive and ate with what appeared to be half of Beverly Hill's Police force. The food was REALLY good....an ole' greasy spoon...we gotta go there again!

It was so good in fact, I want to share their site with you:
http://www.jansrestaurant.com

Ok...
Without further adieu, here's all the fun pics of the day at the Salon with Gina Derry and I think the pictures will speak for themselves...enjoy!

Me, thinking..."Please, Gina! Get rid of this grey!"

Me and Gina Derry

Me with Angelica, an awesome camera operator, really nice girl! She filmed all my dental work and today's shots.

Gina explains to her assistant, Elle, how to mix the colors for my new look and how to apply everything for her.

Elle applies my color while Gina is off speaking with another client.

Look at me, everybody, I'm a baked potato! By the time she was finished foiling, I looked like a full-blown covered Thanksgiving Turkey for pete's sake!

He's me with Elle, I LOVE THIS CHICK!

Uh...what did you say? This is my buddy Hilary :)

Here's Derreck, sound guy extraordinaire.

This is the amazing Raquel, she did Gina's makeup for today's shoot. We're friends for life now.

That's Cyra on the left, giving direction. I have no idea what Gina is telling her, but she's positioning me like a top she's ready to spin or something..."What's That About!?" (people that know me personally will get the joke.) At this point, I was told to NOT peek in any mirrors, so I did have my eyes closed on purpose.

Holy Crap! I think is what I was saying here. Gina took me outside to see it for the first time so I would see the true color of my hair. Obviously, I love it.

I was elated here....taking 2nd, 3rd looks...I LOVE my bangs! I didn't think I would, but I do! And...check out the two tone -- choco brown in the front, red in the back...HOT...Totally HOT!

Here's me and Gina, I am sooo happy here, I feel like I a new woman. Something about getting your hair done always makes a woman feel like you are ready to take on the world and here, I most certainly am! Wooo hoo!!

More progression pics of my healing eyes and face:

August 23rd, 9:20 am

The swelling still remains on the left eye, but wow...my right eye is ALMOST back to normal and what a difference I can start to see now..incredible!

August 24th, 9:30 pm

Wanted to show how my lids are healing. You can still see a considerable amount of swelling. I hope it goes down by Thursday...eeek! I'm going to have to do more ice packs than I have been doing. And yes, I still have to wear this bandage every night, just to maintain the contour of the chin where the fat was removed. Maybe when I go to Dr. Boxrud on Monday, she'll give me the "go ahead" to stop wearing it. Doesn't really bother me, but it will be nice to sleep free of it again.

August 25th, 5:30 am

I had just woken up, getting ready to go on my morning walk...I'm sleepy here. And did you see these eyebrows? Now that they are grown out completely, I can definitely see why Damone says thicker eyebrows make you look younger. He's sooo right! Don't pluck your eyebrows too thin, ladies! Wow, I haven't seen my eyebrows like this since I was maybe 20? Interesting...

August 26th, am

August 27th was a VERY busy day for me. I started out from my house at 10 am and made the following rounds:

12 noon: Dr. Silver's office for my official contact fitting. I found two colors that I really liked and have decided on the lighter pair for my reveal day. They look great! Here's some pics from my contact fitting with Dr. Silver's "contact specialist," Nina:

1:45: Dr. Boxrud's office for my final follow-up. My left eye is still extremely puffy, so Dr. Boxrud prescribed Prednisone which takes down the swelling quickly. I have to take one pill a day for the next three days. Gosh, now I am remembering all the pills I was taking during recovery....lots!

3:00: Dr. Zweig's office for pictures of my teeth and a final look over.
Here's the pictures Dr. Zweig took in his office: the before and afters of my entire face:

Funny, my eyes don't look much different here, do they? I can only assume it is because the flash on Dr. Zweig's camera is really bright and I had a hard time keeping my eyes open at all.

4:15: Hale Bob for the on-camera wardrobe shoot.

Visit Hale Bob here: www.halebob.com

So...after all was said and done, we nailed down what I will wear for my reveal outfit (which I get to keep). I am estatic and SO READY for the reveal day..I can't believe it's already just three more days out...I am tired of being inside!! UGH! I can't WAIT till I meet Damone (I'm such a HUGE fan of his work). Wow...made up by Damone Roberts, what a DREAM!!!...get my new "face" and off the reveal the new ME! I AM SO EXCITED!!!
And, yes, my outfit is fantastic! When I make it famous, I'm going to hire Jorge as my stylist..he's super!

Now...here's some pics from Wardrobe Day!

Jorge posing in front of the racks of cool clothes he sorted through.

Jorge and I...cute shot :)

Another of Jorge and I. These were taken after we were all done with the shoot.

The Hale Bob private showroom location...it's as secret as the batcave!

Elizabeth...she's the head honcho at the Hale Bob private showroom.

August 28th, 11 pm
blepharoplasty - a success!

That's another name for "eye lift," folks. My eyes are certainly improving here...wowie. I must say, those pills are working!

I must note: Today was an extremely busy day for me. I did a lot of errands and one major one in particular. First, I went through both my closets and managed to get rid of 75% of my old wardrobe. Surpisingly, I was glad to be done with it. Then, I went over to Dee-Lux (Buy, Sell, Trade) but they could not take any of my clothes...they were too "old" apparently. Ain't that a gas!! So I proceeded to take eight bags of clothes and two bags of shoes and I donated them to the Salvation Army...JUST LIKE THAT. Now, I am down to a few cute shirts, a few skirts, about three sweaters and about four pairs of jeans. I also am down to about 20 pairs of shoes vs. the 40 that I had. At least, it felt like it was 40 pairs? This was a glorious day for me for sure. Then, later as I was cleaning up my room, I discovered a Target Gift Card worth $50 from the holidays that I never spent! haha! I went to Target online and bought myself a pair of cool jeans, a pair of black gouchos and a cute top with an empire waist. Surprisingly, I still have $12 left! I did good and followed the advice that Jorge gave me about how to dress. Now, my shopping life will become simple. Yeah, wardrobe!

August 29th, 12:37 (after midnight)
I am feeling sexy...

I can't sleep, took this picture because I forgot to earlier, thought I'd show a little shoulder action. I'm thinking about tomorrow, feelin' a little frisky...meow!

Earlier today in the midst of doing errands, I found THESE at my door. They were from my best friend Lynda, who lives in NYC. I was so overjoyed and touched, I couldn't even read the card through all the tears. Thank you, Lynda, you made my day EXTRA special!

Here's the beautiful two dozen red roses - I LOVE THEM SO MUCH!

August 30th, My reveal day. First, I have to say I was up until almost 2 am because I was so excited I couldn't sleep. I had to be on set at 5:45 am, so I left the house at 4:45 am for Hollywood. I wasn't even sleepy if you can believe that! I parked the car and checked in at my designated room at the Rennaisance.

At check in with the Field Director, Cyra, I was ready to go...

First, a fix of my already fabulous hair again by Gina Derry.

Then...
I was overjoyed (understatement) to have Damone Roberts doing my makeup. Here's a picture of him at work:

And here's the result that I could not see until later...funny taking pictures that you are not allowed to see. I'm happy to say that all the pictures that Cyra took for me turned out great. I really like this picture of Damone and I:

After that, there was quite a waiting period, getting my hair the final primp, getting wardrobe on (LOVE THIS OUTFIT) and then passing the time while Christine was in the box.

Here's a picture of her and I, she looked GREAT!

Then, it was time for my reveal...I was so nervous. My friend Pam actually got a sneak peek, the little devil. I was nervous in that it was so strange for me to show everyone these changes - they were going to see a whole new person. I was excited, elated, shaking, happy, scared...everything you can imagine. But, in the end, when that curtained opened, I showed it off proud...just LOOK at this Drama Queen go!

These are the GORGEOUS BOYS that I have been single parenting for 19 years. I am so proud to be their mother. It is a pleasure to introduce the public viewing audience to the loves of my life....
Brooks (19) and Robert (13)

So ends my wonderful journey on "10 Years Younger." It was both a sad day and a happy one. Sad, because I made so many wonderful friends and some will be friends for life. Happy, of course because I have found a renewed girl within me and for THAT this show is directly responsible.

How do you EVER thank people for helping you SO much that it changes your whole existence and outlook on the world and yourself?

Many thanks to Dr. Boxrud, Dr. Zweig, Dr. Silver, Gina Derry, Jorge Ramone and Damone Roberts. Also extreme thanks to the wonderful crew who treated me like a Queen from Day #1: Rachel, Cyra, Carl, Susan, Angelica, Steve, John, Derrick, James...I'm sure I am forgetting more that I can't remember. All of you work so very hard on this show to change the lives of many. To say "Thank You," is not enough. I can only show you through the exceleration of the person I have become as a result of this show.

Special thanks to my dear friend in St. Louis:
Piper Cason, who designed the jewelry for my reveal day (especially for me).

http://www.pipercustomjewelry.com

Last thoughts...

I DO hope to travel the country and visit high school and colleges, domestic shelters, homeless shelters, etc. with words of encouragement and hope for current, past and potential domestic violence victims. It is my goal to touch at least one woman (or one man) everywhere I speak in hopes to influence them away from this type of behavior which is ignored TOO much in this country.

Love to all who have read this....I appreciate your time to share in my extraordinary experience.

Norma Jean